sit him down

He's got you totally wrapped around his finger.  Please sit him down and explain how you feel bkz you keep giving and he keeps taking.  What about DH getting a second job to pay for his exorbitant spending habits on boy toys?  

About 15 years back, I had to sit my DH of 25 years down and just say no ....I just can't do it anymore,,,,.We always put our little bit of money together, paid the bills, put braces on the kids' teeth, etc., but he was getting way outta hand with buying himself nice things and I became tired and resentful. 

Don't feel silly or sad soliciting ideas from folks you've never met....It's sometimes easier to talk to strangers and get another point of view.   

If the sit down talk doesn't work, get a cast iron skillet and whack him in the back of the head with all your might.  Just kidding.    Good luck to ya.

• Feeling down, need advice - tiredofthis
  • Why is it? - Kristy
  • tired of this - grasshopper
  • Shaking head.... - Me
  • My hubby used to spend more than his share... - Rello
    • Messages deleted?? - tiredofthis
  • sit him down - cat
    • This would definitely get his attention! - francie
    • I like your advice! nm - catsxoxo
  • 26 years is a looongg time to be - francie
    • Amen, Francie! - marilyn
      • This makes me glad I am alone - Patti
  • Dont let it fester for too long as you - Alma Brewer
  • I would first ask him... - tnmt
  • Time for some honesty with the hubs. He'll never know how - you're truly feeling unless you tell him. NM

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