relationships
Posted By: starburst-MT on 2008-03-25
In Reply to: Amen MT4ME.. - phillychick
Ok, maybe men that are old enough to be my dad, and from the old school, you might find a good one every now and then, but in my generation after being single for almost 10 years it seem there is way to many problems in relationships these day. To much lying, cheating, porn, drugs and no one wants to be serious in a relationship anymore. So many are so self center and only think of themselves.
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All relationships have ups and downs.
Just because someone is having a bad day or week doesn't mean that the relationship should be ended.
NO, Good relationships do NOT have "toxic" elements
His behavior is classic psychological abuse. He's got you questioning your view of reality, for Pete's sake! Your instincts are right! He's the nutcase, not you. You need to get away from him and get your sense of self back. You might benefit from speaking with a counselor by yourself. Check with your local abuse hotline or maybe a women's shelter for the name of someone who can offer counseling to women in abusive relationships. I really believe you are in an abusive relationship, and you need to get outside it to determine what the best thing for your own sanity and well being would be. I'll be thinking of you. I've got my fingers crossed that you'll free yourself of this abuse. Please take care.
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