passive aggressive men..dumped him too...LOL..nm
Posted By: ooh I was married to one of them... on 2006-01-24
In Reply to: Sounds like a textbook case of passive aggressive behavior. - psych major
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I am SO tempted to be passive aggressive here.
This darn doctor wants me to send a copy of the report to another physician. "Send a copy of this to foreign doctor's name." No spelling, no address, nothing. I finally find the address by accident just by scrolling through the directory. The doctor has not only badly mispronounced the name, but gave the last name as the first name. I'm really tempted to provide the phonetic spelling as he dictated it and tag it with a noted telling him to verify the spelling and provide the address. Really, how on earth am I supposed to know the doctor's information?
Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder...
You just described my ex, and he has passive aggressive personality disorder and oppositional defiant disorder.
Here's a description: http://www.toad.net/%7Earcturus/dd/papd.htm.
I would also recommend reading "Why Does He Do That? Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft. You can buy it at Barnes and Noble and amazon.com.
My ex loves to annoy people for the fun of it. The only way you can get him to do anything is to tell him not to do it. And, of course, he is extremely controlling. It is just my opinion, but I think that people with these types of personality problems just shouldn't be married to anyone. Every time my ex gets a new girlfriend, I really just want to give the poor girl a hug. If your husband has this type of personality, you really should divorce him. Life is just too short to spend it with someone who makes everyone around them miserable.
Sounds like a textbook case of passive aggressive behavior.
http://www.straightdope.com/columns/030530.html
Bose over the ear/passive headphones
i didn't want to mess with the batteries of active noise cancellation type, but this is a passive noise cancellation, extremely comfortable and good sound; has a nice long cord. i just don't like things in my ear anymore. got mine on ebay.
aggressive treatment sm
You are correct. I hope I never get that QA person!
Dumped
I know the feeling. I have contracted with a hospital locally here, done great work, provided 7-day a week service, and given them rock bottom prices - no increases in the 9 years. They decided to go to India for $2.00 an hour. IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY.
if she was dumped it would not be the first time
we have literally had animals dumped on our door step. For whatever reason, this dog knows it is in a safe place and even though our yard isn't fenced she doesn't stray from our yard. I feel so bad for her. We have such a small place for her to stay warm, but today we are having snow and freezing rain, so I guess any place is better than none.
You certainly demand a lot and are so aggressive. Hope you cool down when you are with your family.
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The reason he dumped Jennifer
was that he got tired of being prettier than his wife. HAHA - I'll take a real man anyday, like James Gandolfini, maybe.
Same thing happened to me. I dumped them.
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A big hospital in my area just dumped its 3rd, and -
Hoo-RAY!
Think OSI test dumped crap on computer
This is just a warning to be careful. I took a test for OSi last week and I think the audio files dumped a lot of crap on my computer, so be careful. When I double-clicked to open the file I got a popup that tried to dump an ad tracker cookie on my computer, then my desktop froze up. I rebooted. I did this about 3 times and finally just opened Real Player and then opened the file. I found a bunch of crap on my computer afterwards that I cleaned up. I can't say 100% this is what did it but I would suggest being careful and running AntiVirus/Adware programs afterward. I finally deleted all emails from them because one had 3 attached files that had nothing to do with the content as nothing was being sent to me and I once had my hard drive completely wiped clean by a virus sent this way when I naively opened the file.
I dumped my ex 20 years ago, but got lucky 13 years ago
It would take me all night and pages and pages to describe what a bad person my ex-husband was. After six years of putting up with his OCD, verbal abuse and alcohol, I left him the house, took the kids (5 and 1) and didn't look back. That was 20 years ago.
I wasn't looking to get married again, but I did. After 13 years I only complain when hubby doesn't see things my way. :)
My older kids, who were 5 and 1 when I left, are married and have kids of their own now. My husband gets the Father's Day cards. Their "real" father sits alone in the perfect little house I left behind and let him have and he drinks himself into oblivion every night because nobody is "perfect" enough, including his kids and his grandkids that he never sees.
Sad, but true. So glad I smartened up and got out of there when I did.
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