it's not only in actions

Posted By: nee on 2005-12-30
In Reply to: Way off subject, but I need opinions... - hope this doesn't get deleted...sm

but also in thoughts and emotions that you can be unfaithful. Stop when you can and remember your vows if you want to hold on to your spouse.

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Way off subject, but I need opinions... - hope this doesn't get deleted...sm
- Cheating = anything you're doing with - sm
- I thank you all so much...sm - OP
  - we make mistakes - aj
  - Boredom does, sometimes (sm) - MT
  - Good luck to both of you. Just be honest - honey
- it's not only in actions - nee
- If you wouldn't do/say it in front of your spouse, it's wrong. - Busy MT'ing
- the easiest way to decide (sm) - my penny's worth
  - That's how I would decide also. Treat others the way you - honey
- I'm not going to remove this thread but ask that religious discussion be moved - Administrator (sm)
  - this isn't a religious discussion...sm - in my opinion...OP
- Even if you have a lustful thought in your mind, it is considered sinful. - nm
  - No, it is you act on that thought. nm - MT
    - Not according to my NIV bible. It says even if you have lustful thoughts, they are considered sin. - nm
- Momma always told me that if it looks and feels wrong, - shades of grey
- Any kind of intimacy emotional or physical - mt
- for what its worth - my opinion
- being faithful - sm
  - Gotta say I agree with above. I was in the same - not right
- As far as it being wrong, well who defines right and wrong? On the - Dancinn Shoes
  - God defines right and wrong. - nm
- Whatever you are thinking of doing, DON'T! It's not worth it. nm - Anonymous
- Personal opinion: If it's a secret, it's probably wrong. SM - Becky
- If it's something you wouldn't do with your spouse - or SO standing right there, it is cheating. nm
  - Absolutely right. I use this philosophy - when I am tempted to
- emotional adultry - dls
- No, I don't think you have to have sex to - be unfaithful. I think definitely
  - Gambling, excessive drinking, working too much, etc. - Nancy
    - Yes, but being with a spouse who does those things - sounds like my ex
- Emotional involvement worse, sm - Love my mind
- I think that any form of indiscretion with someone - Wannie
  - I think that while its true that most men - My 2 cents
    - Can't help being attracted to people but - sgh
  - I think Wannie is exactly right. If in doubt, - Nancy

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my feelings and actions exactly!!! nm
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Is there a way for me to go back and see what actions from the previous
week went for? I have something identical to an auction and I had been watching it, although had not marked it, and it ended today and I want to go back and see what the final bid was and then also would like to go back a week or so and see if there were similar items auctioned and the final bids.

The point is that HE screwed up, and he will have to pay for his actions. nm
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to find out what actions your state
on oursourcing issues http://www.nfap.net/researchactivities/globalsourcing/
California has several bills that speak to this issue.

I think insur. tries to get by with shifty actions
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I would take responsibility for my actions and I would not call citizens of the country
criminals if there is no evidence to hold them and I personally have no evidence to present to the law to hold them. I am not one for the spotlight even without grieving for the loss of my child. I certainly would not get up on world-wide TV and insult the people conducting the search and investigation for my missing child. And I would not be in the frame of mind to get all made up with glitter eye makeup and false eyelashes to tell other countries not to accept "criminals" who the legal system did not have evidence to hold. She is a loon.

Auctions - not actions. Need some sleep. TYVM for the info. nm