haha...Sounds like something my husband would do...
Posted By: MtMom30 on 2007-09-18
In Reply to: Men....I'll tell you - Hubba Hubba
although he is afraid if he gets it done it won't work at all...
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Haha! That sounds great....
I need to have something to strap my butt in on those days where I get too distracted. :)
I will check that out...thanks.
Sounds like your husband
did not really want to be involved in this, and perhaps feels that by giving you the number and you calling her that it would only involve both of you further.
While your husband has not asked for my advice, I do think that he should tell his friend that he prefers to choose who has his cell number and does not want the friend's friends calling him looking for the friend. (How ridiculous is that anyway??? I know I don't want people calling me looking for other folks.)
As most other posters have pointed out, however, if I were you I would not call anyone about this, although I personally would want to know if my husband had a "friend" like the one you've described, and in fact have been an informer in a similar situation years ago (did not know the wife, knew the husband well and my roommate was dating him . . . I called her when I found out he had asked for a divorce but did not tell his wife the true reason -- I did not want him getting off as easy as 'irreconciliable differences' when it was really adultery.) Nothing bad for me came out of it, but at the time I did not have a family and I guess now I would just be cautious and not get involved.
sounds like your husband thought about it by
besides, anyone knows or should that you can't just go to do the doctor and expect WC to pay. you have to file with your employer first.
sounds like your husband doesn't know how to take care of incidents, not a problem with the healthcare system. it is working just as it should.
Your husband sounds like he could care less
help!
Your husband sounds just like mine! sm
Except for the weight issue, they could be twins! He often makes comments that I never do anything with him. But he always wants me to drop everything in the middle of the day to go run errands, go out to lunch, etc. When I finally give in, a trip I thought was going to take 30 minutes ends up taking 3 hours cos he just wants to do this little thing and that little thing. I get so frustrated with him! His job is a prn type job, where he could work 80 hours in 4 days then be off the next 2 weeks straight. Of course, when he's home he thinks everyone else should be just as free as he is. I keep telling him he needs to get a job that makes him as miserable as I am! :) (I'm not really -- I love being an MT)
I wish I had some helpful advice for you, but unfortunately I'm in the same boat!
Sounds like a friend of mine - he is now her ex-husband - sm
though, even though "the sex is great", she'd say the same thing. She worked outside the home but was expect to cook a full evening meal from scratch every night (breakfast and lunch on the weekends as well as dinner), no frozen foods, kits, etc. , plus take care of 2 kids, dog, bird, lizards, etc. and of course keep an immaculate house, while servicing him every day. Things got so bad (he has quite a temper) that her kids actually asked her to divorce him, that is sad when that has to happen. But they are now away from Mr. Controlling and much happier. The daughter refuses to see her dad, granted my friend had to pull his teeth to get him to actually see the kids per the visitation at first (2 weekends a month was it), now he is all mad 7 years later that his daughter hates his guts, granted she is 16 now so that has something to do with it too (other than him being a total jerk). He would hold the child support hostage too, so if he was mad her wouldn't give it to her even though he knew she really needed it to make ends meet; so she went to the state and had it set up to be garnished directly so she did not have to "ask" for her support check anymore.....needless to say he was quite tee'd off when she did that. Things are better now but he is still a jerk. They do try to be civil to each other and work as a united front with the kids. Amazingly he has stayed single and has not sucked some other poor woman into his web. -- But you can't do it all. I have not had a night out for probably 18 months, but I do get out every now and then, but my husband definitely has lots of freedom but I don't begrude him as he cooks dinner every day, takes care of the kids as soon as he gets home from work so I can finish up my work or get started on the next day's allotment. He might gripe some but he does help a lot and he knows I do. You need to get yours to get off his butt and help out. As for a 2-day trip, next time just do it like you are tonight. He and the kids will live and maybe he will learn something. My husband had NEVER had the kids to take care of alone until 7/2004 when my mom got sick. I went up to be with her before and after her open-heart surgery. He had them for about 3-4 days, then I came home and took them back up with me a week or so later. He lived. The kids lived, and I think he learned, hey I can do this if I have too. You need to do the same thing (and then hope you don't come home to a mess of a house!). Good luck.
DH is dear husband or any number of colorful adjectives preceding husband. (no message)
;)
I totally understand but if your husband is like my husband... sm
When it comes to something like that, that I usually take care of but for whatever reason I can't, I will tell my husband exactly what to do, but when he comes back - to use your case as a "for instance" - I will ask him, "Did the doctor look at his foot?"
Him: "No."
Me: "Did you ask the doctor to look at his foot?"
Him: "No."
Me: "I told you to have the doctor look at his foot!"
Him: (shrug)
etc., etc., etc.
Your husband may not be like that - I sure hope he isn't. And yes, they should have checked his vitals and checked his foot without being asked. But sometimes you have to be assertive with people. And while my husband attained the rank of major in the Air Force and had no trouble ordering people around, there are times when he should be assertive but isn't. And he is not intimidated by doctors - he started his AF career as an x-ray tech (that's how we met). I dunno....(Rad MT wanders off, mumbling....)
haha
This is a joke, right? You endangered your 16--year-old by moving her in with a man, a crazy man at that? Are you serious? You obviously need some mental help for child endangerment.
Haha!
 
Haha!
Sorry, missed the last part of your post. Just cut her off and stop sending work. When she asks, tell her you didn't think she was interested anymore.
Right?! haha...
Maybe she should just go test if she thinks it is so easy. I bet she would get a rude awakening then.
Haha...well said!
This is only the beginning, not only for MTs...for professionals everywhere.
The other poster had a point though about our elected officials lining their pockets with the money that is being made. Go vote too! Vote for candidates who want jobs to come back to the US and not just ones who say they do, but ones who actually show it. A petition will only go so far. If you want to see change, you have to look even higher.
As far as choosing a different doctor, it is possible even with a limited plan and should be done by all of us.
Good job though...glad someone finally did it. :O)
man, where did the "was" come from haha - sorry! (NM)
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Haha! the joke is on me.
I reread my post right after hitting enter and saw I spelled "their" instead of there! It must be getting to me tonight! Sorry!
If I would read, I would know! Haha
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HAHA-- LOVED IT!
Ouch! HAHA :)
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Haha! Not exactly! Should be rephrased to ask, - nm
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Oh the memories! haha nm
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Haha! I would love to be able to say this...problem is, it might be taken
forgot my expander was not on...should be nobody (haha) nm
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haha, getting like feast or famine, right? (nm)
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haha - glad you agree
nm
yes, I did catch it;hence the haha you missed it
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Probably another "gem" from the AAMT BOS! (haha!) n/m
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Haha...I read it once and understood exactly
what she said. She didn't get the face lift.
Hey thanks.. I never did do well in Math in school haha
Haha! My cat watches me, and I think she can read.....
she already knows how to turn on the printer & the fax machine, so who's to say she's not logging on when I'm asleep and sending sensitive information God-knows-where?
Haha - if that's a 'medical exam', we might as well - SM
call our docs from home and just let them transcribe it. Oh wait. Isn't transcribing what WE'RE supposed to do?
Lordy I hope so! haha nm
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not to worry, haha, we are not at work (smile!) nm
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and before you correct my detail, its "WAS" haha
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haha - must have been one of those hospital grab bags.
LOL
OOPs - mouse, not mouth -haha
nm
Tony sure floats MY boat -haha
nm
Haha! Great story! What a cool mom! (n/m)
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OMG! HAHA! Do they have a Humor Board? You could lead it! nm
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Haha! Great minds at work! - nm
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Haha! that's so funny. Kinda looks like my keyboard!
Takes a lickin but keeps on tickin!
Most of my letters are worn away...esp all the ones I use my middle fingers for.
haha you just happened to be watching his movie but won't tolerate him? nm lol
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haha, am dyslectic without my expander...apology upfront (nm)
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hahaha, check out my expander for jobs, haha!
Jobst ...what a dope!
Don't you love that I a share I'm an editor and I typed a while low instead of now? haha
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12? HAHA I wish! LOL I live just south of Atlanta and pay 50 every time. nm
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Yes, and I update mine every year the same day I file my tax return! Haha nm
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Not biting ... it's been discussed in heated detail on about pg 3 of this board. haha
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HAHA! Yes! I have those daily! But it's not really work as I work nights, it's little things l
turning on the pool filter in the morning and then in the afternoon running out there because I thought I forgot to turn it on. Or preheating the oven and then 5 minutes later saying "shoot! I forgot to preheat the oven!" It's really bad. And I'm only 31. I'm not 90!
I don't know if dementia or Alzheimer's runs in my family, but this could be a sign of something to come. Or as my husband says - you jut don't pay attention to much. He's probably right!
LOL husband
But you have your husband all the time, think out of the box (smile)..who else would you want? Sure hubby or boyfriend is the best but.....
Not me...husband. nm
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At least I have a husband...
The word on the street is that your husband left with the better-looking, better-smelling, thinner girl next door. POOR MOLESTED YUCK!!
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