Yes. she said it better than you...sm
Posted By: anon on 2009-05-15
In Reply to: EXACTLY! You just said it better s - MT30+
and why? because it did not have all the OH PULLLEEEAAASSEEEE!!!!!! and OH! COME ON NOW!!!!! and YOU HAVE GOT THE WORST ATTITUDE OF ANY MT I HAVE EVER KNOWN!!!!!! and all that berating stuff. She got HER point across without sounding superior and holier than thou and demeaning about it all. It's all in how you express yourself. You can say the same thing in two different ways and one will come off as being mean and insensitive and the other as constructive criticism. people just do not respond well to OH, PULLLEEEASSSSEEE!!! if you know what I mean. Leave out all the explitives, tone down your *I've been doing this for 30+ years, so I know everything and you don't!* type attitude, and maybe everyone will not be on YOUR case all the time calling you mean, and all. and once you have had your say, made your point, back off. Don't keep coming back and saying the same thing over and over and over and over again just because someone else may have a different opinion. Nobody likes having anything crammed down their throat 50 times and nobody likes trying to be forced to think like you do. It seems like you just LIKE to argue about ANY thing, and you just HAVE to be right all the time, and everybody else is wrong! You remind me of my ex husband, which is exactly why he is my ex. No ONE person is right 100 percent of the time, no matter how that person perceives herself to be! you may say you are blunt and direct, but to me you are just plain RUDE and condescending. Many others feel the same way I do, but they are afraid to come up against you, so they keep quiet. no ONE person should have that much CONTROL over a discussion board. so lighten up lizzie!
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