Verbally and physically abusive to all of you -- sm
Posted By: MT on 2006-01-29
In Reply to: Bawling my eyes out. - Starting over.
That's the line that jumps out at me in your post. I know you're scared, but you've got a responsibility to your children and yourself to leave if this is true.
Start planning. Contact your YWCA. They have free counseling. If there's no YWCA near you, look in the phone book for other numbers. Women like you leave their abusive spouses all the time, and they have children just like you do. There are resources. Courage, lady. Bolster yourself up and find them. You have to do this for your children and yourself regardless of fear.
Hugs and prayers...
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Any MTs victims of domestic abuse and had to deal with anything similar?
If someone is sabotaging my career what am I to do?
That's still no excuse to be rude and critical, or abusive
to others.
Don't mind extra work as long as it is not abusive
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Too physically demanding
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