That is the problem

Posted By: Needing Support Ladies on 2005-09-28
In Reply to: That's fine, but... - SM

The scary violent father is committed to mother, but the mother doesn't want to be committed to him. I agree with your statistics regarding children. But they are, after all, statistics.

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I'm emotionally and financially stuck - Needing Support Ladies
- Simple answer: - .
  - It is HIS house, I do the moving - Needing Support Ladies
- Dump him, and get your life back together - JZ
- I bet you are weary of our suggestions, :) but I do have 1 question. - ?
  - Answer - Needing Support Ladies
- "I would rather be from a broken home than live in one" - Dr. Phil
- It sounds like you and BF have discussed a split up. - You say hoping for 50/50.
  - Answers - Needing Support Ladies
    - :) actually girl I think you have too many options. - but good luck and happy
- I don't know what else I can add .... - SM
  - Ah, yes, once again - Needing Support Ladies
    - That's fine, but... - SM
      - That is the problem - Needing Support Ladies
        Key word here is VIOLENT. He lost his right to be "committed" - when he did the "violent" thing.
        Don't get me wrong, I agree - Needing Support Ladies
    - Sometimes it's not the income that's important - it's that you were THERE. Sounds like you - been doing pretty good!
- Here I sat feeling so incredibly lonely. Wishing I could meet my soul mate - (See Message)
  - Yes, rather be lonely and happy then with a guy and unhappy - Needing Support Ladies
    - Taxes are deductible and it does help out at the end of the year. - The miserable lonely
      - Also, eating like a poor person - Needing Support Ladies
        You don't need a mortgage if you can't eat. - What?
        I was "kidding" - Needing Support Ladies
      - Yes I qualify - Needing Support Ladies
- Well ... - Busy MT'ing
  - Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
- ditch the loser - iamblunt
  - When I speak of being in the psych ward - Needing Support Ladies
- you can do it!!! - look into renting
  - Thanks but even with - Needing Support Ladies
- psycho woman - Sue
  - Where does it state in her post that she and her kids don't go to church? - mmmmmmmmmm
  - she needs support - not more downplaying
    - Sorry to be blunt, but some of it came by way of her own doing. - SM
      - Being blunt is okay and - Needing Support Ladies
        Oops, can't count though, total of 5 for the bottom sentence! nm - Needing Support Ladies
- Emotionally and financially stuck. Please sm. - Ya gotta go
  - Yep, it all sounds so good on paper - Needing Support Ladies
- You should take the boyfriend out of the equation. sm - what I think
  - I say financially I can't leave because - Needing Support Ladies
- ok I went back and re-read your post. - You have child support for (1)
  - Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
- My advice: Regroup. Find a small cave, cheap, take the kids, get a stable job (1), quit trying to - work piecemeal. You
  - I do work for a hospital - Needing Support Ladies
    - Can I ask a ques? When are you ever w/your kids? - Hope the FT comes soon. Maybe
      - I work nights - Needing Support Ladies
- My 2 cents (that's all I can spare) - jt
  - The other problem is - Needing Support Ladies
  - Yes, thanks.. - Needing Support Ladies
    - Whatever it takes - jt
- Stayed "because of the kids?" I say "leave because of the kids" - next, do what they said on MSN Money board
  - girl power - you go girl
- in the same boat, except for - the wonderful kids and not so wonderful BF
  - Listen to your gut sm - Jayne
    - Curious, how much of household bills is BF carrying? - What happens when that

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