That's a very mature way of looking at it, I think.

Posted By: sm on 2006-07-21
In Reply to: Forgive--SM - none

Forgiving is letting go like you said. People mistake forgiving with condoning. Forgiving is for the person hurt, not the person doing the hurting.

me

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poll: Would you forgive your husband if he cheated? - MT58
- Depends... - D
- cheating/infidelity - JPF
- Absolutely not. It's the one thing that is unforgiveable. - sm
- No I would not. That is the 1 thing I can not forgive. - ExpMT24
- Forgive--SM - none
  - do you mind if I ask is he still with the other person? - MT58
    - I don't mind your asking--sm - none
  - That's a very mature way of looking at it, I think. - sm
    - exactly! thanks. - none
- yes, married 25 yr now - sm
- I did. It happened 25 years ago and - Wannie
- They always seem remorseful. - Sue
  - The once a cheater-thing just is not - true...sm
    - That's why I asked if it was a one-time thing or a pattern - Sue
- I guess it depends on if it was a long-term affair or a one-nighter sm - allit
- No, I tend to hold grudges though I have become - nm - XXX
- Go to counseling and get guidance and structure. - nance
  - Please do not simply give up, kids or no kids! - rainbow
- Been there.. - as a young wife
- It would be the end of it for me. Not something I would want as an example for the kids, either. - No
  - kids have no business even knowing about this!! - klp
- Yes, if he was rich and good-looking. - MoneyTalks
- Absolutely not. nm - me
- shoe on other foot - Patti
  - I agree w/you Patti... - sm
  - Where are those pictures or you house and area? - I, for one, still want to see
    - I want to see them too....nm - casey
  - I think I could forgive..but not forget. - OP4me
- Married almost 20 years - FT MT
- Absolutely NOT! nm - Married for 18 years
- No...if it looks like a - Carly d
- Probably would depend on a lot of variables. - Not sure...

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I am 30, how old are you because if you are so mature
you wouldn't be going back and forth arguing with somebody about "expired maturity". Lighten up or perhaps maybe the board needs to make a new forum called "I have no sense of humor no matter what and don't know how to let others have fun without voicing a negative opinion"!! Talk about growing up, how about lighten up!

REAL MATURE
nm

What? Mine certainly are mature enough to
they want to engage in. There are a lot of things that kids need parents for, but this is just going overboard to say that most 8 and 9 year old children do not have the maturity to make this type of decision.

You sound so mature.

The mature thing to do would be to discuss your

feelings with your trainer. If not satisfied, go to the transcription supervisor, and then to the overall manager.

First, sit back and take a deep breath. Put it all aside for a few hours and watch TV, take a bubble bath, do whatever, but get it off your mind. Then make up your mind that you can do it, but you first must take time to organize everything in your mind. If you really believe it is still the company's fault, then it is time for a new job.

Unfortunately, we do not realize all of this until we are a little older and more mature, sm
and by that time, it seems too late, doesn't it.?

I wish I knew this when I was in my 20s.

Look at the pot calling the kettle black - I am not fighting wth you. I more mature than that. sm
Besides everyone has their own opinions. Glad I got to see yours.

YOU, Busy MT'ing, are one of those that fail to reach mature conversation when you mockingly add
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Well that is real mature, calling me a rimrod. Why the name calling?
I am not telling everyone to leave this site. I gave info about MTSTars.net to let us, who have been on this site MTStars.com for many years to make up their own minds. YESTERDAY, I never got a straight answer about the owner of this board and now I know, but I was in the middle of asking questions earlier and my posts kept getting deleted. I was not calling anyone names, like YOU have and I am not insuling anyone like YOU have. NOT offshoring? Well he is from Pakistan am I right? I still do not know the truth. Can you supply me with more information about Dr. Ahmed?