Tax refund is NOT abusing welfare. If you
Posted By: spent less time worrying about others business, on 2008-01-22
In Reply to: If you had seen as much as I had, you would understand - Notme!
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abusing FMLA
FMLA can definitely be abused - you want a day off but don't want to be docked for it - tell your doctor you need 3 days off instead of the one day you are at the doctor, he says okay, and therefore the 3 days count as one occurrence even though you are out for 3 days. I have a friend that does it all the time - we want to go out of town, she goes to the doctor for a headache or something silly but tells him she needs 3 days off. That is not fair to other people in the office who are having to cover the work on a consistent basis for the one person who is abusing it!
Um, Welfare? Don't think so..
Here's a good example of Americans not paying attention to what CONGRESS is doing on a daily basis: Welfare assistance has significantly changed and will not "pay the bills" for long if at all.
And another example of not paying attention: Two years post Katrina and the government which PURPOSEFULLY ignored the levee situation in LA has also NOT done anywhere near enough to help the citizens they were willing to let drown. This government would much rather spend your tax dollars trying to colonize another country and fix IT than to work on infrastructure HERE.
Um, if he were all that religious, he wouldn't be abusing you sm
so NO, switching religions isn't going to stop abuse.
And what do you BELIEVE religiously? IMO, religion isn't meant to be handed down like the family china. Religion is a way of life and a system of belief and worship. I don't understand when somebody says they'd change just like that, as if it were akin to changing jobs or changing the model of car you drive.
Shock is abusing whether you intend it or not
and as to the better MANNERS challenge, what does that have to do with anything? You can have a well-mannered dog *without* painfully shocking it into submission.
Have you been to the welfare office?
There are programs out there. Forget about pride, everyone needs a hand up now and then. You'll be able to "pay it forward" some day. There are housing, utility, job placement, telephone, foodstamps, medical, TANF, WIC, and other programs out there. The Salvation Army and other places donate clothing and household goods. Check to see if there's a YWCA women's shelter, or have you already? Your assigned caseworker will be able to help you with all of it. They know what's out there and what you can use.
If your husband is mentally ill, he should be able to collect SSDI. Your father should be able to qualify for Medicare, Medicaid, and home health care. Honestly, you need to stop giving to others so much. You and your kids are your very first priority. You can do this. You're strong enough to raise your kids. Find a place for you and the kids. You'll qualify for more without the husband in the household. This is only temporary. It doesn't mean the relationship is over. It just means that you and your children come first. You are a good mother, and you know it. You need to get yourself and the kids established with housing, food, and a job for you. Set some boundaries. You can't help other people if it ultimately ruins you and your children. That is giving way too much of yourself. Whatever you do, hang on to those kids for dear life. You love them so much, and you can do this for them. Things will get better, I promise you that. {{{{hugs}}}}
Thing with this case was he was beating her and abusing her all along.
They had a stormy "relationship" and there was collaborating evidence to this effect. There was motive. You really don't have that in Aruba case.
Several have accused this poster of abusing her dogs.
I wouldn't take it personal. I just started reading this thread and this poster has been slammed from the beginning. I think I too would be a tad defensive at this point.
Typical welfare mentality, just sit with
your hand out and do nothing to help yourself. Let the taxpayers take care of you. Never take any responsibility for your own welfare or the welfare of your family, just collect the welfare bounty that everyone else pays taxes to provide. Why shouldn't people be prepared?
family works for welfare
and sees financials and knows they can afford to help themselves. If you were without electricity for more than 24 hours you qualified for food assistance. I was without electricity for more than 24 hours but I did not go stand in line. Did not feel I needed to and I make a lot less than doctors and lawyers.
Nope. We are all lazy bums living off welfare.
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Good point. Welfare abusers, govt program misuse gets PR,
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Refund
By law, the landlord has to have receipts and proof of their work and that the work was justified. If you feel you have been taken by your property management company, call your local Department of Professional Regulation (they monitor licensed real estate brokers and agents, among other professions) and tell them what your problem is. They can mediate in a situation like this and they will also ensure that the licensed real estate professional is acting in a legal and professional manner in handling your deposit. These types of disputes are VERY serious to this organization. Mishandling of tenant's deposits can get an agent or broker's license suspended or revoked. It's definitely worth checking out. Good luck to you!
Tax refund
My federal tax refund came within 7-10 days and my state came about 3 weeks later.
I don't want an exchange, I want a refund.
I'm not stupid and know how to configure the foot pedal. Even though I had done everything to get it to work, I still followed the directions of your company and it still would not work. I find it funny that one pedal doesn't work and one does, at least temporarily, and yet it is "my issue" and not yours. I have every e-mail and not once was it mentioned it was a software or computer issue. I've even had my IT guy work with it and he said it just isn't compatible, that there is a switch issue in the pedal most likely.
I'm through with this. I'll file my complaints as stated above, but I have better things to do with my time than to continue this. I stand by everything I have said.
1 cent refund
that is absolutely unbelievable -- they are totally out of it!! i would definitely be calling and asking what were they thinking?
Can you get a refund on your family??? LOL
Come to Texas!! Just the two of us (me and my roomie) and the pups, turkey, football, no rugrats this year (we're doing family Christmas tomorrow).
Seriously, sharing the Word is one thing, condemning others is God's place not a humans. Tell him you're engaged! Then, break the "engagement" the day AFTER Christmas LOLOL.
CH 13 bankruptcy & tax refund? anyone know? sm
Do you get back ANY of your tax refund? Who asks how much you got? and then what?
chapter 13 & refund
I am told that you have to send a copy to your Chapter 13 Trustee every year for three years. If you get a refund they will hold it -- which I think is fair and I have no problem them doing it as I want to pay off what I can to the creditors. You can get back part of the refund if you owe state or city taxes. Your friends did something wrong and fradulent. I have not heard of one who got back their entire refund but I don't know everyone. But my attorney definitely told me that for three years if I have anything coming, I will not get it. I work both as an employee and have my business. I just estimate and don't overwithold.
Rapid Refund
Has anyone tried any online rapid refund tax services.....
So obviously anyone entitled to a refund....sm
then will be eligible for this? I also know people who don't pay a dime all year and then end up getting a refund at the end of the year because of the earned income credit, etc. So those people will definitely get this, correct?
Tax break, tax refund
Yes, Bush is waiting on Congress to pass his emergency tactic to keep the economy from nose diving. He says this will stimulate the economy by us spending it. I say, it's another Bush tactic to try and stave off a recession while he is turning out his last days in office. I say, it is ridiculous. Take care of the infrastructure, the middle class, strength education, jobs, job retraining for older adults, etc., etc., etc.
quesion on tax refund
for those of you that filed early how long did it take for you to receive your tax refund check in your direct deposit account? Thanks! Trying to estimate when I can expect mine.
Are the people who are talking about a refund only the ones on DQS? (nm)
pathetic refund back to CEO
you go girl!! tell him you want your postage reimbursed - haha!!
Anyone efile with H&R? How long before you got your refund?
I efiled with direct deposit and am just wondering how long I'm gonna have to wait... the kiddies are hungry and the paycheck isn't cutting it. 
They WILL refund your money as long as you complain
loud and long enough. I did and I got a refund. I turned around and plunked that money on the Career Step course and have been transcribing for 11 years since then. Good luck to you!
Get a refund? Check details of your auction
Hopefully your auction included the potenitality of a refund (buyer may or may not have known of a defect) and there is often a buyer's protection offered for items of this amount. Check out those possibilities quickly as you don't have unlimited time to make a claim.
I would unplug the C-phone and then unseat and re-seat all connectors. Make sure you have the connectors in the right way, and also of course check that volume control :) !
good luck.
I did it that way and had my refund in 5 days deposited into my account. sm
Your information is never truly safe from anyone; however, I think giving it to the government might be safer than not.
I have no qualms doing it.
My refund was for 2 cents. I am sending it back along with a letter to the CEO
and ask them why per contract I did not get the raise promised me in 90 days. I no longer work for them, but hey, I am not going to let this opportunity slip by.
It makes no sense to spend more money than the check was to get it to you and for a company to be that wasteful, you wonder what is in the back of their mind. For both you and me, good thing we did not go run and try to spend it in one place!
Something stinks there!
Yes, write some letters to the Dell people....if you make some noise you will get your refund.
and mail/fax whatever-- get their attention....don't be outright nasty but you can get pissy a little. It will work and you will get your money back.
How long by mail did it take to get your IRS refund check after a mail out date was given when you c
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Aw come one give her a break. She said she was sorry and is willing to refund. Give her a chance to
do what is right. If she fails to do what is right, then go about this in an adult way and not act like such a child. "you suck" That is so immature.
She is responding to you and you are eating her alive. Why would she put herself out there to be treated like this if she didnt mean it.
I am really astonished at how people can act on here. Would you treat people like this in person? If you do, I cant imagine you having very many friends.
Remember we are all "HUMAN."
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