RE: Lonely - sm
Posted By: Kris on 2006-06-28
In Reply to: feeling lonely - lonelyMT
My last baby is also headed off to college this fall - and I know the feeling. I'm not single but my husband drives truck and is gone all week so I will be here alone. I also just had to have my 16yo Springer put down. Thank goodness I have the two cats! Post your e-mail and maybe we can talk back and forth about it.
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My last "baby" is headed off to college shortly. Not only will I have an empty nest, but I am single and feeling a little scared about being alone. Just wondering if any of you have gone through this, and what it's like to find yourself alone - do you get used to it rather quickly or what?  I feel like such a big baby !
Does it get lonely in your special little world?
Did I tell you I won the lottery and won $3567 million?
Yes, rather be lonely and happy then with a guy and unhappy
Thank you for post. I was so much happier when I had my 3 years of single life after my divorce and before I met him. My daughter and I were on our own, I had life by the horns. I didn't have much, but was so DARN happy and CONTENT. Funny how life works.
The mortgage I am looking at for lender #1 is WHEDA 5.375 interest, 30 year fixed. #2 is anywhere from 6 to 6.25 I have been told, 30 year fixed. The problem with the place is the real estate taxes are very high.
I will keep board posted. I am sure I will have my moments. 
maybe neighbor was lonely and wanted someone to have coffee with...nm
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Gee, wish all these newyorkers would meet on the New York State board. It gets lonely up here.
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Here I sat feeling so incredibly lonely. Wishing I could meet my soul mate
All the men I have ended up with sound like the guy you are with. Takes all the courage I have to pick up and leave them but staying with them destroys my sense of self esteem, my sense of humor, and dulls my passion for life.
Now, sitting here, quietly, sipping a capuccino, sitting in a robe, having no expectations (unrealistic) of me, not having the guy in my world stifling me or doing something out of this world to send my spiraling into my mind trying to figure out what he is thinking ...orrr the always present poor financial state that I always seemed to end up in when with a guy (my dad was alcoholic - had tendency to be with men who had character traits of addictive personality types)and all I can think of is life is passing me by cause I am not with a man.
There are worst things than being alone. Why do I forget this???
Follow your gut. Your kids will thank you. Children deserve a happy mom and you deserve to live the life you envision.
Was going to suggest that you wait to buy as I have a feeling some homes will end up in foreclosure as the interest rate increases and the monthly payments on ARMs and interest only loans increase, but if you have a small town that may not be the case.
Let us know how things go.
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