Previews creep me out. Sorry.

• Brokeback Mountain - Romey
  • Sorry to say - I have a phobia when it comes to homosexuals. No thanks! nm - Hetero-
  • That a movie about gay cowboys is wonderful - Isn't it interesting--
  • Not yet, but the poster that put pedophiles in the - momof4
    • Hillary your hero? - ??
  • Will NOT see it-- - It is sick
  • Didn't see it yet, will probably wait sm - nm
    • Wow, I didn't know that. I think it would have been better if it was set "way back" - txmt
  • Hilarious name for a gay movie. Broke back mounting. - Very suggestive.
  • I guess ya'll missed the point, but not surprising - Romey
    • My sympathy was reserved for the women and families they betrayed. sm - MT
      • You people make me laugh.Half say they sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
      • So are you saying you actually saw the movie? - Romey
        • Yes, and one could only believe that if one believed this was something they had no control over. sm - MT
  • Previews creep me out. Sorry. - Enuf said.
    • not by choice - MTness
      • I do not agree with you - nl
        • Whether its a choice or inborn, some of us fight the choices or inborn - Consider this
      • That may be true (but I don't buy it); but in the movie they both get married and have kids sm - MT
      • I guess pedophiles are born that way too. Just can't help themselves and - I don't want to see a movie about them.
        • Where you come off comparing gay lifestyle choices to sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
          • You need a little bit of an education.sm - ??
            • Um, I knew when I was 5. - GaymaleMT
              • The only way - me
                • Wrong once again. - GaymaleMT
              • How did you know anything about sex when you were 5? - I have a hard time believing that
                • Believe it, sweetheart. - GaymaleMT
            • So again having sex between 2 adult males sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
          • Ignore them - pure ignorance on the subject - txmt
            • sorry but the Bible isn't ignorant, dear. - too bad if you don't agree with God!
          • Also... - unbelievable
            • Then why are they after little BOYS??? - nm
              • Gee, I dunno... - GaymaleMT
            • Exactly what I was trying to say above. sm - ??
            • And they - so there
              • Wow. Your thinking is really twisted. I give up. sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
                • Of course you - get it yet????
                  • Please read YOUR bible. - GaymaleMT
          • Because there - me
            • WOW, look at your train of thought. All sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
              • Yes, - me
                • If being gay was normal, the population would die out soon - Think about it
                  • And you will have to answer to your hate and bigotry some day. - GaymaleMT
                    • I don't hate gays-- I feel sorry for them - nm
                • Sure hope none of your kids turns out to be gay! - closedmindsbite
                  • Me, too, but - me
          • people who are attracted to something that is not proper. - Common thread.
            • Ok hon - stop giving in to that instinct to love men. - throwsuphands
              • Think Martin just rolled over in his grave.sm - ??
                • Hate is hate and bigotry is bigotry. - GaymaleMT
                  • and sin is sin. it's abominable, disgusting, and - perverted. it's of the devil.
              • Their skin is not a choice. To commit sodomy with a man is a choice. - Yuck! Why do I have to explain?
              • Who decides proper? If these two cowboys sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
                • You can be born gay or with an attraction to goats. You just don't follow through - Not judging the person but the ACT
                • People like this... - GaymaleMT
                  • You don't need to act on your impulses - It's called self-control
                  • You have still ignored the issue of celibacy. - nm
                  • Forget about them and those like them and - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
                  • everyone has worth and value. if God wasn't concerned with your value - He wouldn't have given His expectations to us.
      • they aren't "born" that way; it is a choice. it is a spirit and - they give into it.
        • How is bigotry not a sin? - SmellySmelly
        • Very well said and I agree with you sm - long time MQr
        • I'm not sure I understand this. - baffled
          • No. You are capable of following instincts and justifying them - Choice dude, choice.
            • So God does create gays? He gives some the "instinct" ? nm - baffled
              • God creates people who have faults - PJ
                • I don't believe that. God also gave us free will. nm - MT
                • This is a wise, wise woman! nm - thankU
                  • You are - quite welcome!
                    • What you do in your own bedroom is your business - Don't shove our faces in it
                  • re: God creates people with - faults
                • This is where I get confused. - baffled
        • OK, one more time. - GaymaleMT
          • Apparently you have never heard of the word celibacy. - nm
          • So does this mean you have to act on your impulses? - I don't get it
            • I dunno...why don't YOU stop acting on your impulse to love men? - GaymaleMT
              • You go ahead and live your lifestyle-- - Tired of it
              • I have - nm
            • Do you - refrain from
              • Yes, as a matter of fact, I did and I do. - nm
                • Yeah - right!
                  • You believe what you want-- I know it's true - nm
          • I would rather be alone than to give into it and you could , too. - nm
          • Right with you but you are wasting your time here. sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
          • high 5!! - MTness
            • Thank you! - unbelievable
          • But it probably won't do any good - You tell them- I'm with you
        • I agree with you. - Definitely
    • But I will wait for the video (sm) - I do
      • two cowboys in love and kissing and having sex? - fun? good movie?
        • Definately ruins any fantasy I ever had about cowboys! - nm
        • I agree. No prude here, but I sm - Yuck!
          • Exactly. What audience would be clammering for a ticket for this movie? - Nobody I know.
            • The audience would be the blue states, - Cowgirl
              • I totally agree! - Arizona cowgirl
              • Majority of texans "ain't ne'er" seen a horse, they just act like the backside of one - and
            • Amen! - nm
            • unbelievable - mtnorth
              • Thanks, can't wait to see it. I'm always up for a good movie. nm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
              • Any kind - checkitout
                • hence the term sodomy - nm
              • Couldn't have said it better, thank you, NM - Romey
                • One more thingto add. - check it out
                  • God created Adam & Eve-- not Adam & Steve - nm
                    • With Adam & Steve, there would be no people on earth now, would there? - nm
                • Yes, a gay love story about men who also marry women and have children and betray them. HOW sm - MT
              • You are certainly titled to your opinion. I do not happen to agree. I assume sm - MT
                • Should be *en*titled. nm - MT
  • Ang Lee is an excellent director.. havent seen this one yet. NM - medtrans

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Living life like that isn't living life at all.  You need to do what makes you happy.  Never, ever, stay together because of the kids.  Your kids are probably not the happiest children with the home situation the way it is, and you know that he already doesn't want the responsibility of taking care of your kids, so what's the use in having him hanging around your neck like an albatross? 

I was married to a jerk who was very similar to your husband and with 3 children it wasn't easy to manage on my own, but I sure did it and I'm glad I did.  It was difficult getting out of my "comfort" (discomfort) zone and make the change, but I knew it had to happen.  That was nearly 5 years ago now and I am happier and my children are happier.  Dear old dad comes around whenever he feels like it to see the kids and I have his paycheck garnished for child support.

Best of luck to you!