Oops...above post was to go above.....sorry. nm

• Okay: I have a problem with my cat and his litter box. Someone please help! - sm
  • big kitties and litter boxes - sienna
  • I use a plastic storage bin and cut a section out for him to ...sm - anna
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  • Big kitty troubles... - steph
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    • Talking about cats, need help - Linda
      • my 3 y/o girl cat loses tons of hair too...nm - I now brush her every other day, it helps..nm
      • Was she tested for thyroid? sm - Topaz
    • He is 3-1/2 years old. Thanks EVERYONE. I appreciate - all the replies. I think I will take him to the v
  • Take the cover off the litterbox. - nm
  • Couple of thoughts....I have a covered box as well, and one cat would do the same - Donna
    • Get a different litterbox without lid....sm - AllieCat
      • I think I will try this, too, with the clear tub. He is just a common domesticated - shorthair (white legs, gray back markings). (sm)
        • Wow....he is a BIG boy!! All the more to love!! nm - AllieCat
        • He sounds adorable!! nm - Topaz
      • Oops...above post was to go above.....sorry. nm - AllieCat
  • My cat is 13 pounds and she just fits in the.... - covered litter box...........s/m
  • Put the cat - ABC
    • some people do not want their cats outside--sm - kps
      • Possible Solution For Kitty - Mary Blanchard
        • I put one of those pads they use for dogs size large (M) - Lori

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That was supposed to be "plasma" not what is there.  It should be plasma perox

I meant to say, what is the going rate for EDITING of VR reports .... so sorry! 

You are SO right -- do you believe I never visualized her in an apartment that was anything but covered in SNOW?  Just goes to show you how much I am able to relate to a sunny clime and take vacations there. (Not much.)  So Jodi, by all means, pay heed to the above poster -- who brought me back to the entire United States instead of the cold northeast where I was. 

DUH on my part.  No, he was out at the bars that night (not unusually!!!) and came to the house about 3 a.m.  I said you cannot stay here!!!  (My husband was already gone).  He said can't I just go to sleep?  I said nope, not here!  He said he was going to sleep in his car and I said fine.  I haven't seen him since.  I guess I should have filled you in on that part also. 

As to him getting something out of this, I totally agree that would make sense.  I did talk to his sister about this (as this is something new for us in our 4 marraige) and she says that he has always been like that, wanting to help people out and having a hard time saying no (which that part I have seen).  I don't know.  I asked if they had "something going on" (which I was kidding, that would be a TOTAL SHOCK!!!) and that didn't make him too happy!!  Thank you guys again for all the support.  I truly feel like I am making the right decision and If my husband is going to stick up for a bum, then he is not the man I thought he was and I will be fine!!