Okay, I have to say something.

Posted By: Patsy Ann on 2006-02-25
In Reply to: Who says she HAS to find another man? - M

This person ("M")has a very valid point and my opinion is that if this man was bad for her boy, then another man would certainly not improve the situation. If it were me(and it is right now in fact), I would turn my attention to my children, especially the oldest boy and try to be a STANDUP mom for him. He is suffering and it will soon start to show in ways that the mom may not like. Your children should come first! That's why you're the mom, it's your job.

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5-year marriage falling apart - newbie
- Please seek the advice of a counselor, not your mom. - been there, done that
- SEEK MARRIAGE COUNSELING NOW! - BEEN THERE DONE THAT
- My take on it - sm
- put on your track shoes, baby! :) - Alice
- marriage crisis - newbie
- My advice... - M
  - Reclaim your life - CMT-me
- Please, go get counseling before you give up --- - mtgal
- Does husband know how unhappy you are? SM - No Kname
- This sounds similar to my 2nd marriage. - please see message
  - Good point. If she left then she is taking the - sm
    - Who says she HAS to find another man? - M
      - Okay, I have to say something. - Patsy Ann
        Right on Patsy! (nm) - Rita
        And mom isn't doing such a hot job of picking husbands, either. THAT should be addressed. nm - K
        In her defense, there are far too many men out there that really should come with warning labels. nm - M
        Yup, just like transcription companies, right? - QA
        Not you, M, but rather K above you! nm - QA
        Unless it was an arranged marriage, yes, she gets the "blame" for the husband she chose to mar - K
        this is my first husband. - newbie
        HoooRah! - Patsy Ann is nodding
        She's asking for advice, not someone to assign blame... - M
        thank you! - newbie
        Hunny, I'm not judging... - Patsy Ann
- I am so sorry. I feel so badly for you and your son, - Me2LongAgo
- Been there, done that. - Anon
  - Me too. Been there, done that, got the divorce. - Much happier single.
- counseling is a must. - Sarah
- I'm not in the position to offer advice - just because

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