No. You are capable of following instincts and justifying them

Posted By: Choice dude, choice. on 2006-01-16
In Reply to: I'm not sure I understand this. - baffled

not everyone has the same instinct. but some of us have instincts we choose not to follow. CHOICE is the key word here. Maybe someone could make a particular person mad enough to kill. Not all people will follow through on the instinct.

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Brokeback Mountain - Romey
- Sorry to say - I have a phobia when it comes to homosexuals. No thanks! nm - Hetero-
- That a movie about gay cowboys is wonderful - Isn't it interesting--
- Not yet, but the poster that put pedophiles in the - momof4
  - Hillary your hero? - ??
- Will NOT see it-- - It is sick
- Didn't see it yet, will probably wait sm - nm
  - Wow, I didn't know that. I think it would have been better if it was set "way back" - txmt
- Hilarious name for a gay movie. Broke back mounting. - Very suggestive.
- I guess ya'll missed the point, but not surprising - Romey
  - My sympathy was reserved for the women and families they betrayed. sm - MT
    - You people make me laugh.Half say they sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
    - So are you saying you actually saw the movie? - Romey
      - Yes, and one could only believe that if one believed this was something they had no control over. sm - MT
- Previews creep me out. Sorry. - Enuf said.
  - not by choice - MTness
    - I do not agree with you - nl
      - Whether its a choice or inborn, some of us fight the choices or inborn - Consider this
    - That may be true (but I don't buy it); but in the movie they both get married and have kids sm - MT
    - I guess pedophiles are born that way too. Just can't help themselves and - I don't want to see a movie about them.
      - Where you come off comparing gay lifestyle choices to sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        You need a little bit of an education.sm - ??
        Um, I knew when I was 5. - GaymaleMT
        The only way - me
        Wrong once again. - GaymaleMT
        How did you know anything about sex when you were 5? - I have a hard time believing that
        Believe it, sweetheart. - GaymaleMT
        So again having sex between 2 adult males sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        Ignore them - pure ignorance on the subject - txmt
        sorry but the Bible isn't ignorant, dear. - too bad if you don't agree with God!
        Also... - unbelievable
        Then why are they after little BOYS??? - nm
        Gee, I dunno... - GaymaleMT
        Exactly what I was trying to say above. sm - ??
        And they - so there
        Wow. Your thinking is really twisted. I give up. sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        Of course you - get it yet????
        Please read YOUR bible. - GaymaleMT
        Because there - me
        WOW, look at your train of thought. All sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        Yes, - me
        If being gay was normal, the population would die out soon - Think about it
        And you will have to answer to your hate and bigotry some day. - GaymaleMT
        I don't hate gays-- I feel sorry for them - nm
        Sure hope none of your kids turns out to be gay! - closedmindsbite
        Me, too, but - me
        people who are attracted to something that is not proper. - Common thread.
        Ok hon - stop giving in to that instinct to love men. - throwsuphands
        Think Martin just rolled over in his grave.sm - ??
        Hate is hate and bigotry is bigotry. - GaymaleMT
        and sin is sin. it's abominable, disgusting, and - perverted. it's of the devil.
        Their skin is not a choice. To commit sodomy with a man is a choice. - Yuck! Why do I have to explain?
        Who decides proper? If these two cowboys sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        You can be born gay or with an attraction to goats. You just don't follow through - Not judging the person but the ACT
        People like this... - GaymaleMT
        You don't need to act on your impulses - It's called self-control
        You have still ignored the issue of celibacy. - nm
        Forget about them and those like them and - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        everyone has worth and value. if God wasn't concerned with your value - He wouldn't have given His expectations to us.
    - they aren't "born" that way; it is a choice. it is a spirit and - they give into it.
      - How is bigotry not a sin? - SmellySmelly
      - Very well said and I agree with you sm - long time MQr
      - I'm not sure I understand this. - baffled
        No. You are capable of following instincts and justifying them - Choice dude, choice.
        So God does create gays? He gives some the "instinct" ? nm - baffled
        God creates people who have faults - PJ
        I don't believe that. God also gave us free will. nm - MT
        This is a wise, wise woman! nm - thankU
        You are - quite welcome!
        What you do in your own bedroom is your business - Don't shove our faces in it
        re: God creates people with - faults
        This is where I get confused. - baffled
      - OK, one more time. - GaymaleMT
        Apparently you have never heard of the word celibacy. - nm
        So does this mean you have to act on your impulses? - I don't get it
        I dunno...why don't YOU stop acting on your impulse to love men? - GaymaleMT
        You go ahead and live your lifestyle-- - Tired of it
        I have - nm
        Do you - refrain from
        Yes, as a matter of fact, I did and I do. - nm
        Yeah - right!
        You believe what you want-- I know it's true - nm
        I would rather be alone than to give into it and you could , too. - nm
        Right with you but you are wasting your time here. sm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        high 5!! - MTness
        Thank you! - unbelievable
        But it probably won't do any good - You tell them- I'm with you
      - I agree with you. - Definitely
  - But I will wait for the video (sm) - I do
    - two cowboys in love and kissing and having sex? - fun? good movie?
      - Definately ruins any fantasy I ever had about cowboys! - nm
      - I agree. No prude here, but I sm - Yuck!
        Exactly. What audience would be clammering for a ticket for this movie? - Nobody I know.
        The audience would be the blue states, - Cowgirl
        I totally agree! - Arizona cowgirl
        Majority of texans "ain't ne'er" seen a horse, they just act like the backside of one - and
        Amen! - nm
        unbelievable - mtnorth
        Thanks, can't wait to see it. I'm always up for a good movie. nm - had a gay uncle so watch what you say
        Any kind - checkitout
        hence the term sodomy - nm
        Couldn't have said it better, thank you, NM - Romey
        One more thingto add. - check it out
        God created Adam & Eve-- not Adam & Steve - nm
        With Adam & Steve, there would be no people on earth now, would there? - nm
        Yes, a gay love story about men who also marry women and have children and betray them. HOW sm - MT
        You are certainly titled to your opinion. I do not happen to agree. I assume sm - MT
        Should be *en*titled. nm - MT
- Ang Lee is an excellent director.. havent seen this one yet. NM - medtrans

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I'm glad I can share what I think.

I appreciate the response.

Trust your instincts. You know best
what your needs, abilities and interests are. If you need or want to explore another career path, why not?
I would suggest some vocational testing either online or in person. Check around your city for vocational services. Whatever you do, don't let yourself feel trapped. Good luck.

Trust your instincts. If you don't think
they have their act together and can't find any other info, keep looking. Good luck.

I would follow my instincts. It sounds as if
you know that it's time to move on. I would encourage you not to settle for your present situation if you're unhappy. If you can start at home with the national on the weekends or something and see how it works out, that's one idea. In the meantime, start looking around. It's easier to look for a job while you still have one. If you need to train for another career, begin now while you still have a steady paycheck. Whatever you do, don't stay stuck and miserable. Good luck to you.

Hm, I thought most abd-organs were capable of herniating like that?
nm

dude, i'm not being literal. toby keith looks like he is CAPABLE
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