My therapist told me that once, and it's true
Posted By: sm on 2005-09-18
In Reply to: Family - Patti
"Would you associate with these people if they weren't your relatives?"
I said, "Probably not."
She then said, "Just because someone is related to you doesn't give them the right to mistreat you, and it doesn't mean that you have to like or even LOVE them nomatter what. If someone is making you miserable, anyone, be it family member, friend, anything - cut them loose and save yourself the aggravation of dealing with a toxic person."
That has been my policy ever since and I have been living a stress-free life family-wise ever since as well.
These are probably not nice people to begin with. If they want to talk to you and respect you, that's great. If not, it's their loss. We can't control anyone's behavior but our own.
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