My son is marrying a lesbian, help!!

Posted By: GoingMAD on 2006-03-17
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I posted for help 2 months earlier, but I am still going crazy over this situation. My son happily announced that his girlfriend is a lesbian, but he is still wants to marry her. His girlfriend does not respect me. She has called me nasty names and boldly flashes her other girl lovers in my face. My son feels he can make it work even though she loves another woman. HELP

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My son is marrying a lesbian, help!! - GoingMAD
- That's a shame, feel bad for you. - SoGladNoKids!
- Have a face-to-face talk with your son! - NJMT
- Well, it's his life, isn't it? (sm) - Les
- Would you rather he marry a man? There is a - come on
- Totally understanding. Our kids grow up and we have no choices. - me
- Oh well.."lesbians" marrying men are usually considered bisexual. Its his life..not yours. - yikes
- He will have a lifelong bodyguard - look at the bright side. sm - Good for Him!
- My advice....... - Lourdes
  - Wow Lourdes - you sound like a - Modern Problems
    - Thank you for your kind words..... - Lourdes
- Have you contacted Dr. Phil?? - He can fix anything. SM
  - Go on Jerry Springer first. - What a scam.
    - Sitting here shaking my head - tsk tsk
      - And you think "go on Jerry Springer" is a real answer? I can't beleive you couldnt see thr - this and know it was a joke. nm
        Who said it was a real answer? - Double your dosage and take a nap
- HAVE HIM COMMITTED. - Sheila
  - Is that you, Tonks? - Huh
  - I was being facetious. This whole... - Sheila
  - You're ridiculous. He's an adult and she can't do that. - It's his decision, not hers.
- Is this for real... - sm
  - Why would you find this so difficult to believe? - Lourdes
  - Ya'll are so ridiculous. Why wouldn't you think this is for real? I mean sm - Ann
    - I know these things happen but the way OP posted it sounds like a troll posting to me. - nm
    - Just gotta say...lol. - wimt
    - Hope these degenerates live in the same place.sm - Rolling my eyes.
      - can check the statistics for you? *l*..nm - so, wanna tell us where you live so we
    - Oh really? - sm
      - Look, if you knew me you wouldn't have said those things. I live in Alabama! We hate sm - Ann
        Back off Alabama, Jack! - 5th generation in this state has more tolerance th
  - This is just something to get everyone riled up, like anyone should care. nm - What a scam.
    - You need to read this..... - Lourdes
      - This is a fake. Why should we care about a story put out by a troll? - What a scam.
  - Ditto - nm - CARDIACMT
  - I agree. It's a little bizarre. - GW
    - Life is stranger than fiction, why - Modern Problems
- I remember your post - it seemed the - txmt
- There must be something he is getting from this.... - you have my sympathy
  - Well, uh, yeah.... - Lourdes
  - I have asked him about why? - GoingMad
    - Just hope he doesn't end up getting her pregnant! - ama
    - some people need drama/excitement - you have my sympathy
- Ask Him - jrm
- She sounds bi-sexual, not lesbian, if she likes men too. As sick as it may sound sm - nm
  - Brad Pitt is not bisexual....just FYI...jes saying.. - angelina jolie is bisexual and Brad
- Is it possible that your son is gay? These arrangements - Wondering
  - I think he might be gay also, because - GoingMad
    - Call the Jerry Springer show. I'm sure they can help - NM - CARDIACMT
      - HA!!!!! - nm
- Maybe she is marrying him so she...sm - mt
- Why does she want to marry him? - sm
- Are they getting married in a church? - Patsy
- To put it bluntly.... - nm
  - doesn't work, hopefully he will learn....nm - I agree - Butt out....if it doe work or
    - oops-If it DOES work or doesn't.he'll learn-NM - I agree....Butt out....if it does work or
- Question - sm - CARDIACMT
  - poster, eh? NOT.................. - real sympathetic to the original
- This girl also has lied on the whole family - GoingMAD
  - Don't Get Mad, Get Calm - Jenn
  - How old is your son? . . nm - Modern Problems
    - is he in therapy ? - your son needs help!

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Maybe she is marrying him so she...sm
can get pregnant, then get child support from your son, and then raise the kid with her girlfriend. My children are only 7 y/o (twins) so I don't know what I would do.

I still wouldn't like her even if I WAS a lesbian.

Oh well.."lesbians" marrying men are usually considered bisexual. Its his life..not yours.

OMG thats too funny. course she IS a lesbian and dresses like a man, so I can see how you might mist
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My favorite moment on a soap was years ago when Hope was marrying someone else and Bo came up riding
on his motorcycle to break up the wedding and take her away. I always thought that was the most romantic thing in the world! My favorite was the Christmas episodes when Mrs. Horton would put up the Christmas tree bulbs of all of the family members and it was basically like reliving the old episodes.

Oh if you think a person is beautiful, you're a lesbian? HMMM
What planet are you on? God thinks all are beautiful, does that mean he is gay? Didn't mean to get you in such an uproar. But I stick to Angelina being a beautiful person. She helps people in need. You ridicule people..see the difference?

She sounds bi-sexual, not lesbian, if she likes men too. As sick as it may sound sm
he is marrying her to fulfill his sexual fantasies. I mean, what man (with the exception of a few) wouldn't want their mates to be with another woman especially if it will involve him. I'm sorry to say that, mom. I really am.

Pray really hard that he not go through this the marriage. That's about all you can do. And if he does marry her, BE THERE FOR HIM unconditionally because we all know that it will not last.