It seems you just want to be the victim . . .
Posted By: SoCal MT on 2009-05-05
In Reply to: Huh?! - Speedy
no matter what I tell you about my situation.
If you think an account of all good dictators can be cherry picked, you're wrong.
Plus I TOLD you I have my share of bad dictators and extremely short reports. So, the "luck you" certainly doesn't make sense. I do all types of work; short/long, good/bad. Period. I'm not taking advantage of anyone.
I think some MTs just like to complain.
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blame the victim, geez
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Tired of the victim mentality
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Believing that a victim is at fault in anything...
scams, crimes, abuse...anything. That's just wrong. If your house was robbed, would you like it someone said you allowed it to happen, take responsibility. How about if your grandparents got scammed out of their life savings by a fast-talking con artist? Would you tell them it was their fault? I don't think so.
This is the blame the victim mentality. You are not alone in this situation. sm
It isn't just you. The situation you're talking about is really tough. I don't know what the answer is but I know it is impossible to do a good quality, profitable job when you have zillions of different dictators.
Typical bleeding heart everybody is a victim mentality, except of course...
those who are smart enough to not get pregnant at 14, finish school, work hard, and pay for and provide for themselves. Then they are villified by YOU for not wanting to just give it all away to those who have NOT made good choices for themselves in this infinite land of opportunity that we live in, the same country where people around the world are knocking on the doors to get into, and HAVE come here and taken advantage of the opportunity here. Opportunity doesn't mean it's handed to you. Sick, young, old, down on luck, or having a rough spell is one thing, but a lifetime of mooching is something else. There IS a difference. But that shades of gray world you live in doesn't allow you to see with any clarity.
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