I empathize
Posted By: Please read on 2005-12-19
In Reply to: My life is pathetic. *sm* - xx
I won't say much except I KNOW the feelings that you are experiencing. It is overwhelming sometimes. I went from being on top of the world to the bottom, all through no fault of my own. I have learned again in middle age how it feels to be hungry and broke beyond belief. I had been broke before, but gut hunger is something I never thought I would experience. It certainly is not a crime to be poor, but it hurts.
It is not my job to give you advice, but please know that my heart goes out to you. I live where we do not have the horrid weather you talk about. I would hate it, and I'm sure that it puts a dent in a lot of things. A warmer climate would put a stop to that, but only you know whether or not that is feasible. God bless.
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I can empathize with that..sm
basically I have very good dictators and I am fortunate for that. I have no ESL, so things are faster for me, even though I do have a couple that change their minds every two minutes and scratch everything I just typed. 3500 gross a day is not possible when I get a lot of dictations from them. some days are better than others, that's for sure. It seems though, that you do understand the possibilities of being able to make that type of line count. thanks.
empathize but
so funny!! Sorry, but I just had to laugh. Can just imagine the expression on your face!!!!
I have used the global search and replace with the same results. At least it can be undone but the horror of the moment is still there.
I empathize!
Part of my problem also. The font thing is important.
I was so ignorant of this. When I was asked by companies what text Expander I used, said "auto text". At least now I know what they mean!
I'm going to jump in and try it . The company should give some of these MTs commission for their recommendations!
I totally empathize and sympathize, but you HAVE to be the one in control.
You HAVE to weed out the horrible/evil friends. Of course, your kids will rebel at first. THEY'RE KIDS!! That's what they do! Your kids need YOU to be discerning for them. I go thru the same thing 24/7 with my 3 kids and 3 sets of rotten friends to weed out. My son is 12 and a great kid. He hung out with this 1 horrible rotten kid. Really negative affect or effect (ha!) on my son - Effect, I know. Well, it was his best friend, etc., but we could barely stand to be around my son after he had hung out with this son of Satan for a few hours. So, we ended it - my husband and I. My son had a zillion warnings about how this kid influenced him in a negative way, but my son never really rose to the mark, so to speak. About a month ago we ended the friendship - really easy to do - they're KIDS. And a month later, my son has started making new friends gradually, and is a really nice young man again. He came to me the other day and thanked me for getting "rid" of this bad kid. He said he hadn't realized how negative this kid was, but my son was afraid to not have friends, or to hurt his feelings, etc. Same thing with my girls. She had a "friend" who insisted 24/7 that my daughter sleep over and "hang" at her house. I never let my daughter go over, as the poor kid's BROTHER AND GRANDFATHER ( who live in the house) are registered sex offenders. Can you imagine? Sure, my GORGEOUS 13 year old blonde-haired, blue-eyed daughter can sleep at your house. At any rate, my daughter was crushed for a while, very difficult for her as this kid put on lots of pressure, but - couple months ago another little girl slept over and something horrible happened to her. We don't know what, but its a HUGE mess in the neighborhood, etc. WE HAVE TO SAY NO FOR our kids, while we can. Bad kids more readily effect and drag down good kids, and not vice versa, though we would like to believe our kids can hold up against the negative pressure. They cannot, and that's what WE'RE here for. Even if they don't have friends for a few months - no friends are better than crap. Trust me. And they WILL find a good friend. Lots of times the nice quiet kids whose moms feel the same way as you are sitting home alone, afraid to be friends with kids who hang out with the bad kids - know what I mean? Have Faith in good winning out, and your kids will find good friends, or they will find your kids! Know what I mean?
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