I'm Sorry

Posted By: LinK on 2006-05-12
In Reply to: Look, if you are single and don't have a man in your life - be GLAD! - Mad as you know what

I'm so sorry that your husband is like this. He has to realize that you work too not only your actual MT job but as mother to your children while he's working and that you deserve some time off.

I'm lucky in that it's give and take in our house. My husband golfs on the weekends and a couple times a week he goes to a neighbor's house to visit at night, but whenever I need to go out with friends or just to shop it's okay with him. I went away for weekends with the girls and it was again no problem.

I hope your husband begins to realize that you need to get out every once and a while if only to get away from the stress of working and the children once in a while and to preserve your sanity.

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Look, if you are single and don't have a man in your life - be GLAD! - Mad as you know what
- Key word here is CONTROL - you need to take some back - been there
- Listen - most men have more selfish ways than women. sm - Happily Married - 19 years.
- The best husband is the one YOU train! - crack that whip! NM LOL!
  - I knew mine was trained the day he said, "Yes. You are going to do it anyway, so just yes." - Good boy.
- I don't get it. Why do you just smile and tell - him to have a good time? - sm
  - But, she said the sex is SOOO good. Isn't this a twisted sort of situation? - sm
    - Hel*, you could get sex anywhere. You don't - need it from a controlling abuser. - nm
      - And, not just sex, but relaxing, enjoyable sex. Perhaps the OP doesn't - sm
        So are you telling me or hinting that I should just leave him and find sm - OP
        Why do you have to leave him for another man? Why not leave for yourself? - nm
        If you left him, it would not make you - selfish. sm
        save your marriage but be smart - ej
        Agree, it's called codependency or being an enabler. You allow it, whine about it, - but won't do anything (sm)
        If you are making it sound worse than it is, don't be surprised that we believe you and post - accordingly. nm
        And anyone who is THAT controlling and suspicious - usually IS running around! - nm
        very true, in regards to my friend I mentione below - sm - Laura E.
- I think you ought to kick the creep to the curb and be done with him. - What a real jerk he is! sm
  - The sex is too good. LOL Besides, I'm a committed girl. I do love him. He's just a jerk somet - OP
    - Sounds like a friend of mine - he is now her ex-husband - sm - Laura E.
    - Some of the best sex I have had has been alone. Sex is no reason to put up with a jerk. - nm
      - LOL! You calls 'em as you sees 'em, girl! - nm
    - Then you're doing yourself a disservice, just because the sex is good. - sm
      - I personally prefer to have good sex with someone who is nice to me. nm - M
        Same here. There are plenty of men - to go around. - nm
        Hey, I never said I was a whore...I enjoy sex with my husband, not just any man! nm - OP
        Major patriarchy brainwashing. - Yuck. - sm
        Exactly, and how can you really have good sex with someone who is mean and - sm
      - Mine is a lot like that too. - in-house employee
        So do something about it. - nm
      - Agree. - nm
- Oh how I remember it well....sm - I feel for you.........and your situation
- You Go Girl!!!! - b
- I'm Sorry - LinK

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