How is your daughter doing now? My thoughts and best wishes go out to you and your family - sm
Posted By: tg on 2006-07-20
In Reply to: started at about 8K PT 2002, last couple years 12K but - Laura E.
I have a 5yo daughter and I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Hope everything is better now.
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Hope you are okay! Lots of well wishes and positive thoughts for you guys!
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I just wanted to send best wishes and luck to you and your family. nm
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That's a great news Rose, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter
guess, that all we could do for now.
My eldest daughter's family...
were raised in an apartment and there were 6 kids with 2-3 bedrooms. They all still live in the same building and love it. I think it's kinda neat.
There was a report out of Dallas how a family took in evacuees and the daughter was raped by one of
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Best Wishes
I wish you and your son all the best in the world and I am sure you will make the right choice and giving your son the right to make choices for himself is the right thing. To many parents today live through their children and not for their children.
My son wanted to do this and I agreed to it. Even though it is very time consuming, but at the same time it is full of rewards.
God Bless and Best of Luck
Thanks to everyone for the well wishes!
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Best wishes to you, too! (nm)
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Best wishes to you!! (nm)
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Best Wishes
I feel like I should point out that (in the fairness of all) the God messages should be on the relgious board, it is a little presumptious to think we all believe in God.
That said, best of luck.
Thanks for the feedback and well wishes
I am preapproved for a loan but the payments scare me. I've never owned a home on my own before. I'm also cashing in my small 401k to use for it. I'm young yet, under 35, and know that that is not the smartest of ideas, but my NOT-darling, boyfriend, father of my youngest (2) (have 3 total) is prone to violent behavior. I've put up with his rantings for 3 years, NOT anymore. If I can just get through the next couple weeks .......the house is empty.....so hoping if things go okay, I can move in, maybe before closing. PRAY for me!
No problem! Best wishes!!
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Can you believe it? Time sure does fly! Thank you all for the well wishes!
We're not planning to go anywhere anytime soon!
Best wishes to you on that plan, but
I have to admit that I was (and still am) an RN first. With all of its difficulties, I have to admit that I would prefer to be an MT than return to that extremely stressful situation of RN bedside nurse. The one good thing that I can say with regards to nursing is that the pay seems to be really good, though, and it does not seem difficult for a new grad to find a good niche in which to begin working. One piece of advice that I give is to work towards a minimum of a Bachelor's degree and possibly move on towards a Masters degree or even a PHD, before you are 50. Find a job that you can continue to do until older age, when your body may no longer be up to the physical stress required for direct patient care (especially when it includes lifting, turning the patient, etc.) Get into a specialty where you can use your brain more than your muscles. If you are not already doing so, get into an exercise program and take good care of your musculoskeletal system. If I were not almost geriatric, I would take my own advice. My big mistake was starting out with an Associate Degree and not continuing my nursing education. Believe it or not, I cannot even get a job in a doctor's office, as they prefer LPNs. I even called my state board of nursing and asked if I could get an LPN license by just being an RN and taking the LPN exam. They told me that I would have to complete an LPN training program first, which I am not inclined to do. I know it was a strange question to ask them, but I had to ask...Best to you..
Like it or not, she is a legal adult and can do what she wishes.
You can tell her your opinions, but you really have no control over this. Just as you wouldn't want someone forcing you to have an abortion because they believe it's right, she likely doesn't want you trying to force her to keep it because it's what you think is right.
All you can do is be there for her if/when she needs you. Yeah, it may stink that her beliefs are not the same as yours, but there's nothing you can do about.
Awesome!!! Congrats & best wishes! (nm)
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Thx, not religious at all, but thanks for the good wishes! sm
I know it was meant well. Good wishes to all here. Peace.
Consider it done! Jenny is blessed to have a friend like you. Best wishes to all. nm
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Can anyone tell me the best company to work for if one wishes to do only do op notes...sm
I have 30 years experience in MT work and for the last few years have been able to do exclusively operative notes which is what I love. I have been very happy with current company but have to start my work day early in the a.m. and now my account has been overstaffed to the point there is no work in the morning. While there is plenty of work late in the day, there is nothing in the morning and so I feel I must look for another company for at least part time op work initially and if it works out I could go full time. I have left my email address so please feel free to contact me. Thank you very much for any help you can offer.
Thanks for the good wishes, everyone. Happy Easter!
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Thank you all for your kind wishes and prayers. It is much appreciated.
You are all great!
Cool staff. Thanks for the warm wishes.
Hope everybody here had a good Mother's Day.
Prayers and well wishes are just as important as financial help...
sorry you don't see it that way...
Thanks for your response and good wishes! I'm lookin' :)
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Oh. It's well wishes. Guess with the posts here on the subject that wasn't apparent. nm
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frank says aloha and wishes you were here but unfortunately funds for Hawaii vacation dried up.
Frank is now working on a vacation for lucky MT to home office in beautiful downtown New Jersey.
family is family wheter 3 or 8 sm
i live in MA and $1200-$1400 a month is what good health insurance costs, ie $20-$40 copays. it was just passed into law that if you live in MA you have to have medical insurance so without being self-employed, you can go right to BCBS etc and get a plan directly from the major health insurace companies, but for a family plan and a decent income bracket, forget it. the prices are outragous. right now my husband pays $120 a week for family plan and this is after his employer pays 30% of the total cost. we have $20 copays, but we have a $2000 individual deductable per year with a $4000 family deductible cap. so when my daughther needed her tonsils out, $2000 and when my son broke his arm, $2000. someone on this board has to be able to tell you what they pay for insurance through their company as an employee. good luck.
49 years old/self taught/daughter 20 years old/self taught. I'm a CMT, and daughter is studying t
take the test soon.
So? Take the good will and good wishes and smile. When the first day of Hanukkah comes up, SM
have a doughnut and a latke on me. I'll wish you Happy Hanukkah then. You know we spread Christmas out over a month!
Sounds like he will do great then. Again, best wishes for great success!
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Here's my thoughts....sm
While I feel empathy for her family wondering what happened and wanting closure, frankly I'm tired of hearing about the case on the news, and that we have tied up FBI and even the military resources to look for her. We have people that go missing in the US every day... and people visiting countries disappear - and you only hear about the ones who have families that are rich or well connected with the media.
In my town there's a college girl who has been missing for over a week and it finally made the newspaper in a small blurb today. This girl missed a flight to visit her family for a vacation and hasn't been seen or heard from since then, and her family says this isn't like her and that she was excited about the vacation. Are they getting the attention this chick in Aruba is getting? No.... because they're an average middle classed family.
Some thoughts on that...
I do know how you feel. There are a few things I've done to cut that type of sress down...
I'm not sure what your company is like, but for mine, we have a primary account, and many people also have secondaries (mine is so busy that I don't usually need back-up work, so I have one major account). It pulls from several clinics, but with a pool of about 20 or 30 dictators, after awhile, you get the hang of even the hardest ones. There are some dictators that are just really bad, and I struggle with. When I can't figure something out, rather than spending 10 hours searching and struggling, I use blanks. I give it a good faith effort, as best as I can, and then I move on. Since I usually clip along at a good pace and am pretty confident in 99% of the work I do, I don't let myself feel bad for sending something to an editor, if I truly don't know what it is. Of course, I do the research, but if I'm looking for something for more than a few minutes, it's been too long.
You may need to look for a different account/specialty or even a new company, if you think that is the problem. I know that, at one point, I ended up moving from a difficult but high-paying account to an account that paid less, but I was more comfortable with. I ended up making more with the lower-paying account, because I wasn't having to stop every 2 seconds, and I wasn't tearing my hair out, and ending up in tears at the end of the day. Of course, people should move up as they feel ready for that, but perhaps you need a workload that doesn't create so much extra work for you.
Those are just some thoughts, but you CAN do it. Be proactive in finding a situation that works for you. You are more of an asset to your job when you are comfortable and not stressing and struggling.
Hang in there!
but here are my thoughts
If your son cried, the coach tried something with him. Why didn't anyone press charges or have the coach fired? You don't let pedophiles coach kids.
My thoughts
For obvious reasons, I hope it is not true. But it kind of makes sense. I was working on Monday the 5th and was transcribing work from the 2nd, when within an hour, the work was 100% gone! Perhaps they routed all the work from Amherst to Ohio and then offered them unbelievable incentives to get it done. Not sure if that is what they did or not. All I know is the work was gone awfully quick and it has yet to return.
My thoughts
Direct deposit is definitely the way to go! Never a worry when and if the mailman is coming today!
I second your thoughts
Aren't these people that CONSTANTLY complain so darn frustrating? I am right here with you that MQ is a good place to work. Well, better get back to work - LOTS OF WORK THIS MORNING - YIPPEEE!!!!!!
My thoughts exactly
Great minds think alike, and I agree with you 100%!!!!!
Well said!
My thoughts-LM
I would want to know what type of docs run the clinic - whether anesthesiologists, physiatrists, ortho, neurology, etc, as this will guide the typical direction of the dictation. Because pain med Rx writing is always under scrutiny, there will probably be a fair amount of repetition for every pt on medicolegal issues. Most, but not all, of my experience is with neuro/physiatry-based pain management. For both these, I found the doc more likely to do further workup, which leads to much longer and involved reports. In the middle would be those docs who do extensive review of the patient's history and only minimal further testing. The extreme other side of the coin are those, what I call, in/out pain clinics where the pt shows up every 30 days, re-signs their drug contract, has their BP checked and leaves with a new Rx. I would always expect the initial H/P to be extensive and the f/u notes relatively brief. Typically lots of phone call documentation and referral/followup letters or information. Anesthesiologists lean more toward a lot of injectable therapies, blocks, epidurals, etc., at least initially, putting more of an op bent on their practices.
As far as interesting, pain patients are very repetitive in their complaints and their needs. Typically, by the time a pt gets to a pain management practice, the cause of their pain has already been extensively worked up. There are true chronic pain sufferers and those who are drug-seeking only. Things do get interesting with the latter because they are very creative when it comes to trying to con or manipulate the docs. If I were in your shoes, my first question would be what speciality of docs run the clinic. As far as job security, it is way up there for legit practices. More often than not, the average family doc is not willing to prescribe pain meds beyond a certain amount of time/quantity and feel forced to refer the pt to a pain management practice in order to protect themselves from the medicolegal aspects of the business. Hope something here helps - best of luck to you.
My thoughts
I have worked for the same company for six years and my best friend also works for the same company but has different accounts. It seems that things seem to go in waves and becomes either feast or famine and seems to be this way for both of us at pretty much at the same time so I wonder if it is just kind of natural for things to go up and down. This time of year seems to slow down for me and I have come to think it is because of Christmas, seems maybe people aren't wanting to go to the doctor and have the bill due to Christmas coming up. I don't think there is some conspiracy or things are being shipped out of the country, I think it's just the natural flow of things, at least for myself and my accounts. After the new year things always pick back up for me and have for the last six years.
My thoughts
What exactly is difficult about it? The IC's charging a fair line rate. The doctors use a lot of macros to save time and because if they're like most doctors, they hate dictating, and they get to see more patients so get to charge the insurance companies more plus collect co-pays. I just don't see anything difficult about it.
My thoughts .....
I think EVERY new driver should have a nice Rambler for their first car, then a Pacer .... it'll make 'em appreciate anything more LOLOLOL
my thoughts
your m-i-law's 'not telling you the whole story' in my book is akin to lying -- at the very least, deceit. Maybe it wasn't her place to tell you, but she could have insisted her son did (or else she would). For her to keep in touch with this other woman is inappropriate in my book, unless she is scheming to put her back in the picture. Of course you have the right to feel angry and betrayed. You always have the right to feel what you feel. i'd be sorely inclined to put some geographic distance (a lot of it) between you/hubby and her. i'd be civil, but never feel i could trust her under these circumstances.
I'm so sorry. Here are my thoughts.
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I can't say I know how you feel because my parents are still alive but I can say I'm so sorry. I think a death of a parent is something you NEVER get over, you just learn to live with it. I think if you feel the need to cry every day, then cry every day. But also, try to think about the good things....the things you learned from him...the things you did together. I bet your dad would not want you to feel this down over his death. He would want you to remember the happy times and focus on the future. Take each day at a time. You are only six months into the griefing process so I would think it is completely normal to shed a tear over your beloved father. He sounded like a great dad and he thought the world of you. Hang in there. You're going to make it through this.
My thoughts
Well, being a country music lover, I liked last nights show. However, besides Kelly and Bucky being in their genre, it was definitely an off night.
I LOVE CHRIS! I think he could sing an autopsy report and make it sound beautiful! He definitely rocks and I can see him winning it all!
Kellie was great! Yes, her "dumb act" is a tad annoying but there is no doubt she could be a country star.
I think Ace might be going home tonight, or perhaps that is wishful thinking. He just annoys the crap out of me.
I must laugh at the one poster below that mentions Kenny Rogers. I must say he looks pretty darn good. Actually, I think he looks younger than he did 20 years ago.
can't wait until tonight. My prediction is that Ace is going home.
my thoughts on it
Homosexuals as well as other "minorites" have been treated as second class citizens for so long now. Let them be proud of it! Do I think they go a bit far sometimes? I sure do! But I don't have a problem with it. If a same sex couple wants to hold hands on the street then let them. We don't need to stare in disgust and shield our eyes. They are just trying to have the same freedoms as we have. Discrimination is alive and well even today. I know this because I have gay friends and hear about it all the time. I feel that as long as you are happy and living your own lives then then let them be. I know many "straight" people who are living in dead-end marriages, completely unhappy and not doing a darn thing about it. But their union is so much more sacred? I think it's hogwash. We are all different. Let's celebrate those differences, not put others down because they aren't "fitting the mold" of what's acceptable.
I'm looking forward to Rosie being on The View. I don't think she'll slam her sexual orientation down our throats at all. She has very precise views, yes. And she will talk about them. She's VERY political and I feel that has nothing to do with her orientation. SHe's given and helped raise MILLIONS for children and others who are less fortunate than her. So why is it any time Rosie comes up people automatically make fun of her being gay? Get over it people. SHe's a person just like you and me. jeesh!!!
My thoughts
I did feel that the fact that she had a REAL JOB on top of her Mom job was downplayed. Sigh....as it always is, I guess TV is no different than real life :-(
I would imagine they set up the other Mom and the husband to "work" doing the medical transcriptoin by just giving them really easy stuff and having someone go over it (probably just re-do it) before it went to the doc/hospital. But both the Exec Mom and the husband couldn't handle the MTing so I think that said a lot.
I felt she got respect at the end. Again I watched this months ago so I am trying to remember exactly, but it did stick in my memory that she was valued at the end. Love the show!
thank you. I appreciate your thoughts..sm
and yes, today WAS difficult, when I know my children are hurting inside and there is nothing I can do or say to make it any better. I DID over react to someone's words, and I have apologized, but I did not need to be called a nit wit. I did not deserve to be called anything just because I was trying to be as flip as she was. I became defensive, and that is wrong. I hope she gets her computer problems fixed, but it does not sound hopeful. thank you again for your good wishes. Tomorrow will be better.
Okay then, here are my thoughts
I don't have teens yet but I fully expect that mine will get part time jobs during the Summer if at all possible. As a teen I worked at the local swimming pool and during the school year I babysat every Wednesday evening and sometimes on the weekends.
I was able to save money and when I graduated from HS I was able to buy myself an inexpensive car. I also bought a lot of my own clothes during high school. MOST of my friends were in the pool swimming during the Summer while I was working the front desk......but believe me I had plenty of time for fun. Had I had all the extra time on my hands that they had I might have got into the same kinds of trouble they did. Seems drugs fall into the hands of kids who have a lot of spare time. I have never even tried drugs.
I was 15 when I started working. Ahhh, so long ago. 40 now. LOL. Since I worked during the Summer it didn't interfere with school. During the Wednesday night babysitting I was able to work on any homework I had. It didn't interfere with school at all. Honor student in fact.
Now, as far as the divorced parents thing. Sorry for upsetting you. I just didn't see the point of putting that in the post since it is a total non-issue because that stuff happens with kids who have 2 parents as well as 4 -- which is why I mentioned it.
I think you are doing the right thing with your daughter. She will appreciate you for it later :-)
What are your thoughts on
My 15 YO daughter has a part-time job...she works 2 days a week at a local fast food restaurant. Her best friend, on the other hand, doesn't work. Her mom thinks she shouldn't work until she gets out of high school. I say, that's up to her, but I think it's to her daughter's disadvantage.
It was my daughter's idea to get a job, we didn't push her into it. She likes going shopping, movies, Starbuck's, and loves having her own money to do it with.
Now, her BF just turned 16 and her parents (she has 4 of them...my daughter only has 2!) bought her a car and set her up with her own checking account to pay for the gas. She has no responsibilities whatsoever, which drives me up the wall!
Oh BTW, she just got her license YESTERDAY...and last night, she was driving around to Wal-Mart, Target, Starbuck's...ALONE...with her 10 YO brother in the car with her...and we live in a small, but very busy part of town...you know, one main road that leads to everything! Is it just me or is this crazy?
Opinions please, as I know y'all have 'em!
my thoughts
I know where you are coming from. I got a shower invite not long ago from the same type of person. Initially, I thought "forget it" but then I realized it was a great chance to see other family members that I do care about. I took a nice gift and card to her - no thank-you note from her which didn't surprise me. But I did get to see the ppl I wanted. Sort of a trade off. I understand your feelings and its entirely up to you. I am learning to live my life doing things I want to do, prefer to do, not SHOULD do!
My thoughts.. SM
I had no formal training. I lost my job and my future mother-in-law was an MT with her own business. I asked her to train me and she did. For three years I drove over 50 miles one way 3-4 times a week to work in her office. I feel it was better training that I could have ever gotten from any school.
My MIL has told me she had many people try doing transcription without experience and I was the only one who worked out. She even had people with training who didn’t do as well as me. I believe it truly depends on the person and you should know right away if she will work out or not. You have to have an ear for it and that can’t be trained. You have to have good English skills and you have to be willing to work very hard.
It is possible. It will take a lot of work on both your parts. My MIL knew from the beginning that I would work out compared to what she had seen before. You should know this too and be prepared to cut your losses if you feel she isn’t the right person for this field.
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