As you said...sm
Posted By: Becca on 2006-07-20
In Reply to: I am FURIOUS and need advice...pronto - totally not MT related...sm
if your husband hadn't told you about this you would have never known. If he had something to hide in the barn, he wouldn't have opened the barn door. As for calling this woman, what has she done? She called a number that was given to her in order to find someone else. She wasn't looking for your husband. He was sort of like directory assistance. This woman may or may not know your husband's friend is married; but it isn't your place to tell her. I would guess that she might know or have suspicions because the friend didn't give her his home number. He could have had some excuse for not doing it, but come on, if she is looking for signs she'll see them.
As for telling the other wife, how would you feel if someone you hardly knew came up and told you your husband was a skank? You would be humiliated. Chances are she already knows what kind of a person her husband is, and for whatever reason, she chooses to live as she does. For all you know, she may not care. Even if she does care, you can't force someone to see something when they refuse to open their eyes. If he goes out as much as you say, this probably isn't the first time something has happened. His wife knows in her heart what kind of person he is, but she may not be ready to face it right now. When she is ready she'll handle the situation.
Letting this cause problems between you and your husband is silly (if you're like everyone else, you have enough problems of your own and don't need any help!). Don't run into someone else's drama and make it your drama. If your husband's only reason for not giving you the number is because of your reaction...I don't blame him for not giving it to you because you're terribly upset by this. Let it go and be grateful that you have a husband who comes home to you.
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