Ah, yes, once again

a perfect world scenario. I hope your daughter abides by what not to do, as does my 16 y/o.

And compared to the rest of my family, I'm the most stable, the most well-educated, bringing in the most income, and have better behaved children. Imagine that.

• I'm emotionally and financially stuck - Needing Support Ladies
  • Simple answer: - .
    • It is HIS house, I do the moving - Needing Support Ladies
  • Dump him, and get your life back together - JZ
  • I bet you are weary of our suggestions, :) but I do have 1 question. - ?
    • Answer - Needing Support Ladies
  • "I would rather be from a broken home than live in one" - Dr. Phil
  • It sounds like you and BF have discussed a split up. - You say hoping for 50/50.
    • Answers - Needing Support Ladies
      • :) actually girl I think you have too many options. - but good luck and happy
  • I don't know what else I can add .... - SM
    • Ah, yes, once again - Needing Support Ladies
      • That's fine, but... - SM
        • That is the problem - Needing Support Ladies
          • Key word here is VIOLENT. He lost his right to be "committed" - when he did the "violent" thing.
            • Don't get me wrong, I agree - Needing Support Ladies
      • Sometimes it's not the income that's important - it's that you were THERE. Sounds like you - been doing pretty good!
  • Here I sat feeling so incredibly lonely. Wishing I could meet my soul mate - (See Message)
    • Yes, rather be lonely and happy then with a guy and unhappy - Needing Support Ladies
      • Taxes are deductible and it does help out at the end of the year. - The miserable lonely
        • Also, eating like a poor person - Needing Support Ladies
          • You don't need a mortgage if you can't eat. - What?
            • I was "kidding" - Needing Support Ladies
        • Yes I qualify - Needing Support Ladies
  • Well ... - Busy MT'ing
    • Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
  • ditch the loser - iamblunt
    • When I speak of being in the psych ward - Needing Support Ladies
  • you can do it!!! - look into renting
    • Thanks but even with - Needing Support Ladies
  • psycho woman - Sue
    • Where does it state in her post that she and her kids don't go to church? - mmmmmmmmmm
    • she needs support - not more downplaying
      • Sorry to be blunt, but some of it came by way of her own doing. - SM
        • Being blunt is okay and - Needing Support Ladies
          • Oops, can't count though, total of 5 for the bottom sentence! nm - Needing Support Ladies
  • Emotionally and financially stuck. Please sm. - Ya gotta go
    • Yep, it all sounds so good on paper - Needing Support Ladies
  • You should take the boyfriend out of the equation. sm - what I think
    • I say financially I can't leave because - Needing Support Ladies
  • ok I went back and re-read your post. - You have child support for (1)
    • Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
  • My advice: Regroup. Find a small cave, cheap, take the kids, get a stable job (1), quit trying to - work piecemeal. You
    • I do work for a hospital - Needing Support Ladies
      • Can I ask a ques? When are you ever w/your kids? - Hope the FT comes soon. Maybe
        • I work nights - Needing Support Ladies
  • My 2 cents (that's all I can spare) - jt
    • The other problem is - Needing Support Ladies
    • Yes, thanks.. - Needing Support Ladies
      • Whatever it takes - jt
  • Stayed "because of the kids?" I say "leave because of the kids" - next, do what they said on MSN Money board
    • girl power - you go girl
  • in the same boat, except for - the wonderful kids and not so wonderful BF
    • Listen to your gut sm - Jayne
      • Curious, how much of household bills is BF carrying? - What happens when that

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