yes and no
Posted By: sm on 2008-04-02
In Reply to: Should I forgive? and if so how??? (sm) - MTme
a person always needs to be forgiving, if they can. and not its not ridiculous to think of divorce after this amount of time. Do you talk to each other about it? my husband used to be occasionally abusive. i hung in there, and now after 26 yr we have a very solid, warm relationship. for us, it took time and communication and prayer. however every situation is different. i think the one thing you said that stands out, is that he was 'never terribly sorry'. that's huge. that will make you feel very unloved, and then self-preservation will cause you to wall your emotions off, in my opinion...maybe if you ask him what he thinks of your 'option', and you can really talk, you may find out he does in fact care a lot. ?? i wish you the best.
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