they have a date list on the IRS website

• did anyone ever get the tax incentive ?? - sm
  • tax incentive - mandy
  • Got mine 5/16. Filed first part of February. - no message
  • they have a date list on the IRS website - MQmomma
    • No did not file myself, and yes, have - sm
      • you can do the Where's my stimulus form - and find out exactly where it is
        • Much obliged! - nm
  • Did you file it yourself . . . - I want to go shopping
  • Yes, as scheduled on May 9th - LinK

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About a month ago my I took my 5 yo  swimming and invited one of her friends and her mom.  The two girls played for a good 2 hours until another one of dd close friends showed up so she started playing with him.  Well this upset dd little girl friend and she came to me saying "dd won't play with me. make her play with me. "  I called dd over and said that we invited suzie over so introduce her to Joe and you all three play together.  This just upset dd and made her mad at suzie.  I was not sure what to do but suzie's mom said it was time to go anyway so they left.

Well, just yesterday MIL took me and dd golfing.  DD met another friend and together they played.  The went across the street to the playground then a friend of the other little girl showed up.  Well, the other little girl dropped dd and started playing with her little friend.  DD got upset adn said sandy won't play with me.  I said well, I image you're feeling what Suzie felt when Joe came to the pool.  DD just sat there mad.  MIL said Introduce yourself to the other little girl. DD did not want to do that.  Then MIL said well lets go play on the slide.  DD went and played but she was still upset, she walked up to Sandy and said "I am not playing with you anymore not even at school."  Sandy replys, "That is okay, I have a sister to play with."  MIL told dd not to talk to Sandyl that she wasn't worth it and out loud too.  (Luckily Sandy's parents were not there).   I just said Oh MIL.  I started talking to Sandy.  I asked her if she was ready for school.  Sandy and I had a nice little conversation.  It kind of broke the tension between them.  I am sure all is forgotten by now. 

I was just wondering how other parents handle these situations.  TIA

Simple questions .......

Would you ever date/marry.....

someone who is less educated than yourself?

someone of a different race?

someone whose parent's are divorced?

someone who has bad credit or alot of bad debt?

someone who is overweight or obese?

someone who affliates or supports a different political party than yourself?

someone who is rude to customer service staff?

someone who talks a longtime on their cell phone when you are eating?

someone who enjoys a different genre of music?

someone who does not enjoy the same leisure activities as yourself?

someone who is a very picky eater or someone who is a vegeterian/vegan and you are not?

someone who prefers to spend leisure time alone or with friends (without you)?

These questions had me testing my own dating/marriage limits...

did jo pick someone yet, and if so who was it

I got a ticket 4 days before Christmas for having an expired tag (had planned to get it taken care of when my income taxes came in - my fault, but crap, I've been broke the whole year!).  So I got the tag renewed the next day because the cop said they would be looking again after New Year's to write another ticket (have seen that my city has had a 25% increase in tickets written in the last month - like they need the revenue!).  So, all I had for my little one was a PlayDough activity center under the tree $15, and a pink umbrella and some candy in the stocking from Santa.  She was happy, though.

I've had that **??@$ ticket next to my monitor to look at it every day for the last 2 months to remind myself to go before the judge and ask for an extension of paying it until Friday when my check comes in.  I have literally been living paycheck to paycheck, sometimes with only $8 in my account in between.  Well, tomorrow I am scheduled to go to a different court to get a child support order (money I'll never see anyway), and I picked up my big orange folder to put my income tax return in it to take with me.  Guess where I put it?  Yup, right on top of that **??@$ ticket.  Yup, I forgot to go to court last night.  Was being bombarded with emails that my accounts could lose power due to the storm and all MTs needed to empty the systems.  Now there is an arrest warrant out on me.  I talked to a clerk at court and he told me to stay indoors until Friday, then come in and pay to have the warrant removed, then I can get a new date to pay the **??@$ ticket. 

Well, I have to go to CS court tomorrow, but at least it is just a short hop onto the interstate and then quickly out of my city limits.  If I can just make it till Friday, pay the warrant, maybe my karma will start changing.  For the last 15 months, I feel like I am the little kid on Charlie Brown that walks around in a dust cloud.  I have seen the inside of more court rooms in the last year than most people see in their lives with getting custody of GD.  I must have done something really nasty to have this kind of karma for this long.  Oh, well.  They say when you're down, the only way to go is up. At least paying to have the warrant removed is less than the ticket and it gives me another month to come up with the money for that.  I'm so broke, I can't even get drunk to forget my troubles!  Maybe my luck will change by St. Patty's Day   

p.s.  I had to edit this message because I used the word s-t-u-p-i-d to describe that ticket and the website wouldn't let me use it, thus the **??@$ symbols !! 

someone who is about the same age as your child or have you ever? Watching Dr.. Phil today and seeing 38-year-old woman going with a friend of her sons who is 18. As for me until I married my husband, the only younger guy I had ever dated was only a year younger.

Hanna, Tigger, Sophie, Ethyl, Wally, Pipin, Morris, Tito and Moshee.

5 awesome cats, 3 birds a-flyn' and a little dog in a pear tree!

Who could only have one?  They are like potato chips.  All the Harry Potter Movies  - do you have YOUR ticket for Wednesday?, Where the Red Fern Grows, The Big Chill, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill I and II, Better off Dead, Gone With the Wind, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, Casablanca, Driving Miss Daisy, Rear Window, Chronicles of Narnia - The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, The Passion of the Christ, School of Rock, The Crow, Braveheart, The Secret Garden, all the Jason Bourne Movies, The Labyrinth.  I have to stop now and go watch one before I fall asleep!  I am glad to see all those wonderful movies on here.  Now I am reminded of old favorites that I want to watch again and ones I don't own for my collection I share with my daughters.   

About the divorced men with kids living at home with their parents...I can understand their situation.  After I got divorced, my kids lived with my ex and I paid child support.  It was impossible for me to live on my own and pay CS, even when I got a job that doubled my yearly income. The more I made, the more my CS payment went up.  I respect someone whose priority is being financially and emotionally responsible to their children after divorce, even if it means being judged a "momma's boy" for living with his parents for a while.  On the upside of that, too, is the fact that not just any old new woman in his life is going to be brought home to meet the parents (usually).  They usually wait until they find a special someone to bring them over to meet the family.  Remember, I doubt that the ex-wife is just sitting at home twiddling her thumbs minding the kids.  Most ex-wives DO date after divorce (otherwise there would be fewer blended families/second marriages), so I don't see any difference between the ex-hubbie and the ex-wife.  JMHO