stalker

Posted By: total witch on 2009-01-23
In Reply to: total witch - Emily AYn

A crazy person may get a bus all to herself just for acting crazy, a bum may get a subway car all to himself just for smelling bad, but this is a computer internet post and you are a bully and you cannot have the board to yourself just by being mean to everyone.

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Is there a way to get smoker's smell out of a house? - Roommate
- Since they offered, take them up on it -sm -
- now i see where you witches are getting your ammo - Emily Ayn
  - Maybe stop calling us all 'witches' and you'll get nicer responses. - Takes one to know one
- have you ever met someone - total witch
  - ???????????? - NM
- Assume the smoking outside will not last. sm - Been There
  - I used to smoke and NEVER smoked inside the house. nm - Kendra
    - The difference is that you never did; these guys have already been doing it. nm - Been There
  - Two of them, one of her - majority rules
    - I think the same way - if the OP doesn't - straight typer
      - First, i didn't ask, they OFFERED - roommate
        They are not being rude! - majority rules
        find a place with no smokers - straight typer
- You'll pretty much have to paint and steam clean - sbMT
  - thanks for being the only one to answer my question - roommate
    - why is it rude to state the truth? - majority rules
      - YOU are rude - Emily Ayn
    - who is rude - total witch
      - total witch - Emily AYn
        stalker - total witch

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My experience with a stalker
I was stalked by my ex-husband for over a year when I left him, and looking back now, I know I did all the WRONG things. I moved frequently, got a different vehicle, changed phone number, etc, etc.

The very best thing is to take the offensive. You have already told him repeatedly to not call you anymore, but these weirdos see it as a challenge, like a cat and mouse game. Everytime you try to dodge them, they see it as a personal victory when they finally get you on the phone or otherwise make contact with you. They think they can actually wear you down and eventually get you to themselves.

Do not change your phone number or e-mail address. That only prolongs the cat-mouse game. Instead, take whatever you have --emails, phone messages, etc--and get an order of protection. You say you are reluctant to get the police involved. That is EXACTLY what he is counting on and puts you at a huge disadvantage. That is what they are there for. If he gets the message that you will and do call the police everytime he violates your demands to leave you alone, you will win, and he will likely be doing some time. He is willing to go to great lengths to pursue you. The pursuit just lasts longer the more you run from it. As soon as I stopped running and turned around and took him on with the law on my side, I beat him in little time. Remember, predators chase helpless deer, not ferocious mountain lionesses.