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Posted By: you ladies...sm on 2007-10-09
In Reply to: And you think by telling him or your daughter - Been there
I have not told her to stop seeing him. She asked if she had to break up with him and I told her no. I just said she has to see him here at our house, not his. I'd prefer they go out on a date, like dinner, a movie, and then he bring her home. But, as he doesn't work, they can't do that. I will not forbid her to see him, most of what I am saying here is out of my anger and disappointment (like I would not literally choke the little you-know-what; maybe...). I am just very disappointed I guess. This really hit me harder than I thought it would, lots harder when it was my 20 YO son. I just keep thinking, she's my little girl, my baby, and can't wrap my mind around the thought that she's practically grown. I know I probably sound crazy and half-cocked, but I really am not. I am, however, taking her for a Pap, may rethink the blood testing for now, not sure. She's had 2 of the 3 Gardasil shots, so hopefully she's protected that way also. Just so many things more to worry about now, not just getting her through her senior year of HS and applying to colleges. I'm just so disappointed and emotional about this whole situation right now. Hopefully it will pass soon and I can look at it logically.
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