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Posted By: my guy on 2009-04-02
In Reply to: Has your partner changes over the years - anon
When I met my husband he was a newly divorced single dad who moved to the big city with visitation only with his 6-year-old daughter once a month and summers. We did not have that much in common superficially, but our ideals were the same and we had a good physical relationship. The stress of the child support, visits, and ex-wife drama was a lot for us to bear. We had one child together because we were so excruciatingly poor.
When his first daughter was grown, we had another baby girl. And my husband bloomed. He changed careers and his depression lifted.
When his first daughter got married and had a baby, my husband put down his cross of guilt and we have had a lot of fun as a family since then. We love trying new things and going on trips, eating out, theater, museums, etc.
He was in there, and I guess I could tell, but he was buried in a lot of guilt about the failure of his first marriage.
Also, on the side, his first wife is the subject of much small town gossip, which makes my husband a wee bit sinfully happy he left her all those years ago.
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