invite her

Posted By: sm on 2008-12-16
In Reply to: I can forgive, but how to forget? - long, please forgive me but I really need advice

and just keep trying to move past it. Relationships take nuturing, caring about the other as much as or more than yourself -- lots of effort. You will be blessed in many ways and be happier with yourself. In this Christmas season, it is good to remember esp, that God forgave us, before we even cared about him. Now it is our turn to forgive others and show them the Spirit within.

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I can forgive, but how to forget? - long, please forgive me but I really need advice
- invite her - sm
- I would definitely forgive them sm - deni
- I think you should forgive them both... - Kendra
- I would just ignore and move on, she sounds - sm -
- sounds like a menopause sneak attack - menopause
  - Sounds like you have lots of "splainin" to do, Lucy. - BT *been there"
    - this is ridiculous - not even
      - LMAO ...exactly - original poster
        Just because they're old is not a license to be RUDE! - OldMT
    - Excuse me. I have a question. - sm
      - A: (answer) Yes! - BT *been there"
        You did your rant, laughed your ___ off and wrote off your Mom and Grandmom! - BT *been there"
        It's hard to tell exactly who you are talking to - sm
        when I became a mother - amen
        I agree. My mother is a drug addict and lost custody of me - original poster
        Amen and OP. Thanks for the perfect punch lines for - the stories from the other side of the coin. nm
        You have not idea what you are talking about. - sm
        your story - sadie
        PS I should add that - sm
        There are several sides here, listen! - helping profession

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Let her invite who she wants.
She must be so proud and probably wants to see some of these people. JMO. Take it from me, life is too short. Let her invite some people.

When an invite says RSVP
It's good etiquette to respond even if you can't make it to the event, right?

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Married 23 years. Never an invite to anything from
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We'd only all get together when I invited anyone over. Now that I've stopped, I never see them. FIL, who was a really nice guy, died last November. I haven't seen any of the sib-in-laws since then. I see MIL when she needs something, because the other three barely pitch to help their old mother. I'm sure that when she dies, we'll never see DH's siblings ever.

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Invite everyone to your house to celebrate
your "first" family Thanksgiving together. For Christmas, you could invite them over, OR tell them you have having your own Christmas together and then just stop by for a while at each. You don't have to eat at each place just because you go over.

I don't intend to invite the same people

The way I understand it is the first few parties I have to ask people to host, who in turn invite their own friends, and then hopefully these people (who may or may not be known to me) book shows and then invite another circle of friends. I'm not talking about being the hostess and inviting people into my home.

I know what you mean, though, about the pressure to buy at these things. I went to different 4 parties this week because I had invited these people to my party and they ordered stuff from me.

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I wish you lived in my neighborhood! I would invite you in for some coffee and a chat!
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