i think we naturally seek
Posted By: sm on 2009-04-10
In Reply to: a question about - religion
to know and be close to God, at least until the 'world' around us lures us away. The whole idea undergirding my religion is that God wishes to have us reconciled with Him. I personally believe we instinctively feel that void. Like your child, i grew up in a nonreligious home, and was very drawn towards finding God. My opinion.
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seek the advice of someone who knows
consolitation loans only treat the "symptom". Pay them off gradually, do not give your hard earned money to another lender. They charge way too much (all of them) to close on these types of loans or they wreck your credit. Seek out The Total Money Makeover and see how you feel then. It is by Dave Ramsey.
He supplies all of which I seek... nm
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Seek out a counselor.
I'm with you. I think naturally men are much better leaders.nm
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You need to seek out professional help . . .
This can't be fixed just by you changing your behavior. Both of you have to come to realize how the other feels and how to work towards the goal of a happy, giving, respectful marriage. From what you've written, it sounds like you have a passive personality, and it sounds like he's taking advantage of that. I would also suggest that you seek counseling through church, so that you can both discuss the spiritual side of your marriage and develop that as well.
I pray for healing for you both, especially for the children. Happy and loving parents are such a gift to children.
I have naturally curly....
hair, but not the nice locks that look sexy, I have a huge poodle-like frizz ball on my head! I used Biosilk for years with my flat iron and it works great. You buy it in the salon. I never could find any of the department store products that worked. Recently, I found a new line of products made by Palmer's and you can buy them in Wal-Mart. They have shampoo, conditioner, etc and are made with extra virgin olive oil and I promise you these are WONDERFUL! They have this stuff that comes in a big green aerosol spray bottle and it's called "sheen spray". I use that now with my flat iron and if I'm in a hurry I will use it without my flat iron. I LOVE that stuff and it only costs around 5 bucks!
naturally, it works for many things - NM
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We have decided to seek professional help.
My husband and I talked and decided that for all our sakes and to try and do things right, we are seeking professional help to guide us through this.
I feel somewhat more relieved with that in mind.
I hope all this works out for the best.
Thanks everyone
Easy for you to say if you can have children naturally..sm
My hubs and I tried for 2 years and found out I have blocked tubes and scar tissue so bad that surgery would not help it. After trying to adopt 2 children and burning through 12k, our hearts were broken when the children were sent back to their biological mothers. We then tried in vitro and it worked. It is easy for you to say IVF is selfish because you can probably conceive children the "normal" way. Until you experience this, you can't say that it is selfish to want to have a child.
Talk to him about it. If need be, seek counseling. Don't
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Seek another opinion - alot of doctors are
hysterectomy-happy. I've typed many reports where women had hysterectomies "just in case." Seek another opinion or even two more opinions.
I personally have a naturally round face...sm
so, no I don't think extra weight looks good ON ME, and I have enough of it right now. It all boils down to personal preference, I guess. Like with most things of this nature.
I like Aveda and I have naturally curly hair.
It's pricey. But it seems to make my hair so smooth and silky and manageable even when I decide to straighten it with a hot brush. Actually I like all the Aveda hair care products.
I'm an Avon girl for make-up. I especially like the cream to powder foundation. Easy to apply and then easy to take off at night, but I still use noxzema for make-up removal since I was a teenager. I don't wear make-up everyday, but when I do I really like the Avon products. Not too found of the nail polish, but I like the eyeliners and lipsticks. OPI is the best for nail polish as far as I can tell. 
I have naturally curly hair that is colored, and thus dry sm
First, stop washing all the time - I cut back to once a week (when scalp feels icky) but I use a conditioner every day (rinse out). Out of the shower I put on a vial of Hask placenta leave-in conditioner; that adds shine and restores the curl. Another good thing to try is an avocado oil treatment; you can use this daily on towel dried hair and it adds lots of shine.
yes, melatonin works - is what the brain naturally releases for sleep...
I take half and I'm asleep in under 3 - 5 minutes. Wake up fresh and clear. no overhang.
We seek for the truth, our own personal truth. SM
Not everyone is religious. ;)
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