i know im sure my first instinct as well as everyone else is right....
Posted By: Emily Ayn on 2009-01-09
In Reply to: When I was about 22 I moved in with a couple who was renting a room (sm) - Been there
I just get caught up in the hope of the situation and how much it would have helped me out with bills and now I'm kind of heart broken at the fact that this probably is a weird situation. I have been emailing back and forth with them... but now ill just let it go especially after my mom JUST emailed me this tidbit :
WOMAN ATTACKED WHILE RESPONDING TO CRAIGSLIST AD:
Newport Beach-A Newport Beach man who posted a Craiglist “cottage by the ocean” room for rent adversistement on the Web site alledgedly assaulted a woman who responded to the ad. Corey Katir, 48, has been charged with 2 felony counts of sexual battery by restraint and a felony count of false imprisonment by violence. The 24-year-old wman responded to the Cragilst ad in September and investagors say she was forced into Katir’s bed and sexually assaulted. Authorities believe there may be more victims. Craigslit representative say there isn’t enough staff to police the hundreds of thousands of mostly free ads posted on its web site.
There you have it.
Love, Mom
HOWEVER i may be hopeful but im NOT STUPID and i would have taken a guy with me to begin with to meet. :)
Anyways thanks all
I guess Ill just continue on looking for something else.
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Please go with your gut instinct here...
not to mention the out and out inappropriate behavior of this tip from your husband without even consulting you first!!
The fact that he is blowing up should be alerting you to something. If he wasn't involved in some fashion with this girl, he certainly would see your common sense point of view and NOT do what he did. You put an end to this now.....you should tell him both of you will be changing stylist ASAP and if he truly cares about you and there is absolutely nothing to concern yourself with, then he will have absolutely no problem putting you first and going to another stylist.
There is absolutely no reason for him to ever speak with this lady again for any reason. If she needs any further assistance, she can find co-workers or family for that.....that's not his job.
Please don't continue to let this happen. You know this is inappropriate behavior; he should not be having any personal discussions with another lady about anything.....that is another woman's responsibility, not a married man.
You are not being "stupid". You are right; he is using that tactic because that is his way of trying to "punish" you for speaking up for yourself. You have every right to demand this stop immediately and if he isn't involved in some fashion, he will. Otherwise, you should speak with this woman and stop being her client OR her friend in any way. There really wouldn't be any reason for him to continue going to her would there?
You know what's happening, one way or another.....now you take care of it.
Some dogs just have that instinct more than others - sm
our husky will kill just about anything that gets in the yard (fenced) if it can. Though he is the friendliest dog in the world as all huskies generally are (huskies are not watchdogs). The lab will carry about dead animals too, though I don't know if she did the killing. They don't mutilate the animal though luckily, just "play" with it until it is dead. Moles and possums are our usual fatalities around here, though I let the gate to our chickens open once and let the dogs outside so the husky got a chicken unfortunately. The lab could care less about the ckickens. We also have to keep the husky away from our cat as he did try to kill the cat once; had it in his mouth ready to shake. Luckily I was right there when it happened (no one put up the gate inside so the dog could not get to the cat) and I was able to grab the dog right when he grabbed the cat and I got him to release her. No injuries, just lost a tiny tuft of fur but was fine luckily. Very close call though, we are a bit more careful these days when we let the dogs in and always have escape routes for the cat in place if she needs them.
Your instinct told you NO and you did the right
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Finally.............thank you!! Gut instinct!!
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What kind of dog do you have? It's hard to beat natural instinct.
My cat keeps killing birds and laying them on my front porch as little gifts for me. I'm so thrilled at 6 a.m. when I get up and walk out on the front porch for my morning coffee and find a dead bird! But thankfully my cat goes after small prey. My neighbors cat brought home a big fat rat the other morning! YUK!!! I don't know where he got it and I don't want know!
Good luck!
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