You can prove it

If the cards are in your name and he is just an authorized user, then he would have had to sign your name to it somewhere.  That's fraud, even if you are married.   If you have contact info for the card companies, I would follow the advice that someone else wrote and contact the card companies and get copies of the original applications.  You can use that as proof that he's a lying scumbag and he'll get stuck with those bills (hopefully).  Good luck.

• should I confess? (sm) - anon
  • Also look into putting in a "credit freeze" which wouldn't allow anyone to open anything in - Solamente
  • You can get the original applications... - phillygal
  • lying - confession
    • No he doesn't confess anything to me (sm) - anon
      • still I have no real proof of what he has done (sm) - anon
        • You can prove it - Happy MT
  • If you are going through with the divorce, - kt
    • I know, I am wondering if I should just keep hiding (sm) - anon
      • I know, I am.... - anon.
  • Suze Orman just had something on her show about - a similar situation s/m
    • Yes, get a divorce lawyer - sm - In-debt MT
      • Thanks...wow...(sm) - anon
    • The above poster is right - OldMT
      • excellent advice, I'm going through a divorce sm - MTfor2long
        • did you use an attorney or a mediator? (sm) - anon
          • I saw a few attorneys and ended up sm - MTfor2long

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http://www.tenant.net/Other_Areas/Penn/harris/pa-toc.html

This actually references some statute information that might be relevant to your case.  I just skimmed through it, but this might be helpful.