You are not evil, you are just worn out - sm
Posted By: on 2009-04-19
In Reply to: My thoughts exactly... - Anonymous
he is laying on the guilt trip big time. You have done what you can. He is able bodied and more than capable of working, especially if he has a friend who has a job available for him but he is too lazy to take. He just does not want to work, why should he when everyone around him will pay his way. I'd cut him off. Tell him the gravy train made its last stop, and not to come back until he has a job and a pay stub to show for it. If he refuses to work, then give him some addresses of local shelters so he has a place to go after he is finally evicted. He has no one to blame but himself, though I am sure he will blame you, your mom, your husband and anyone else he can think of. There is no helping someone like that, their sense of entitlement is too high.
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To MT and Worn Out:
Thanks so much for your prayers and thoughts, MT. I sure do appreciate them.
I probably won't be on the Politics Board for a while, simply because I don't have a clue about what's going on politically any more. Though many may not agree with my posts, I at least post them with passion and a viewpoint formed by keeping current. I used to really love to write, but I'm not very good at it any more, so I guess I'll just let time do its thing. LOL.
I will definitely come back to this board, though, if you'd like, to let you know some of the GOOD things that happen, ,if and when they do, especially after putting you all through the BAD stuff!
Your dad is a wise man. I've been trying to keep a stiff upper lip, but sometimes it just quivers. LOL
Tired and worn out
I am sure a lot of you are in the same boat I am, but I just need to vent.
I am 50 years old, married for 33 years, have a 26-year-old daughter (schoolteacher) who lives at home.
We run our own business, plus I do transcription. I receive no help whatsoever. I run the office for the business, do all the housework (dusting, dishes, laundry). I am hating to get up in the morning because I know I just face the same thing every day. My husband and daughter are very busy as well, but I wish they would just pick up after themselves. All I do is pick up and never get to serious cleaning or organizing. I am going in circles all the time.
I am ready to pack my suitcase and run away. There has to be more to life than this.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Can anyone tell me why bangs are worn down over the eyes and
people always seem to be a) shoving their hair out of them, b) flinging their head from 1 side to the other to get hair back from their face, c) keeping their hands in perpetual motion pushing their bangs/hair back from their face. Why in the world do female do this? If I had hair hanging in my face, over my eyes, I would have to have it cut. What is the reasoning behind this?
Worn off letters do not bother me at all, I
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Evil is not prejudiced.
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we are our own god; we need to eliminate evil
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i'm proud of my worn-off letters -- confuses intruders
i've purchased many keyboards in my day (as have we all), and i just love it when folks come over and see my E, S, T and R are missing, if not more. when you get a new keyboard and read the box, believe it or not, they are listed as having a life-expectancy of 10 million Keystrokes -- doesn't take us long to burn thru that! right now, i've been using this microsoft ergonomic and all letters still in place (bummer). however, microsoft had some nerve moving the keys all around like they did --- just crazy to my fingers....
Not only have some of the letters worn off, but I have made dents into the keys. sm
My husband saw my keyboard one time and couldn't use it because he didn't know the location of the missing letters.
I like mine worn off so nobody else can use it! QWYUPKZX are the only letters left! nm
He's plain creepy and evil looking! nm
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Resident Evil was scariest because it could happen
who knows???
Well, I guess it's a necessary evil. I have a son in HS and daughter in 2nd grade.
In the HS, if their balance is too low to cover their lunch, they don't get to buy lunch. They figure high schoolers should be responsible enough to make sure they fill their accounts up. At the elementary school, they are allowed to be in the hole, although I'm not sure how deep they can go because I never let it get too far. The elementary school sends a pink slip home when your child is in the hole telling you how much. They never deny lunch, they just pink slip you and you know you need to fill up and I always do.
I realize parents should make sure their kids eat, but what some people don't realize and is some people's pay checks are stretched way too thin. There have been times when I've paid bills, etc., and then find out my kid is out of lunch money and I have to wait until my next pay check. I rely on the school to cut me a little slack. I make too much to qualify for discounted lunches, so I do what I can and I hate the idea of my kid having just a baloney or pbj sandwhick in lieu of a hot lunch!
Resident evil Apoc? That sounds AWESOME!
I love those things. Are there any others like that you could recommend? I am a member of Columbia House DVD and they have a sale and I was looking up sci fi, fantasy, and there were so many to choose from, I did not know which to choose. I heard the 400 is good. Also there is a movie out I think Alien v Predator. Sorry to get off topic, just wondered if you can suggest any other good things to watch.
Evil Obsession: The Annie Cook Story nm
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Ditto - but add arrogant and evil to the list of adjectives to describe this loser
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Played Prey on Xbox 360 and watched Resident Evil Apocalypse
yay!!!
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