Yep..my motto always has been and will always be...

Miracle Do Happen to Those Who Believe...

I remember hitting rock bottom, feeling helpless and hopeless to get away from him.  The turning point was when I sat down to write a suicide note to my children so they will understand that I felt it was my only way out. When you sit there and decide that the only way to get away from someone is to kill yourself..it's time to leave. I'll never forget feeling like that was the only choice I had. No one will EVER make me feel like that again...that death was worse than living that way. AMEN..

• Do you ever question your husband's decisions? Does he get mad? (sm) - Opinionless MT
  • husband decisions - anon
  • Jerk. - MslaMT
  • Huh. Paid for chores. Watta country! - Me
  • He was trying to instill in the next generation that women - should make less than men for equal work.
  • The tool I use to 'convince' my husband to agree. - Hayseed
    • Now, THAT's what I want for CHRISTMAS this year! lol - HolidayMT
    • So THATS how the other women get those nice husbands! (nm) - OP
  • I'd have to agree with the other posters. - Myownboss@@@
    • good for you! - SUNshine
    • Your story mirrors mine almost to a T - Sandy
      • Wow - no not that extreme!! That's awful! (sm) - OP
      • Yep..my motto always has been and will always be... - Myownboss@@@
        • How do you get away from someone like that? sm - curious
          • Trust me..it was not easy.. and it honestly took 4 years.. - Myownboss@@@
            • You know that saying about doing well is the best - Sandy
            • I wish my niece could know you - marilyn
              • Thanks Marilyn. I believe anything is possible. If I were say that my life is 100% perfect, I'd b - myownboss@@@
          • restraining order? - jlynn
            • Tell them, my own boss, years ago no restraining order - Sandy
              • It is in the not-so-distant past that women had very few rights! (sm) - My mother
              • Yep, been there too. They don't work. They could kill you before someone sm - curious
                • Research before doing anything ... sm - sickofit
                • I'm so sorry for what you are going through! (sm) - OP
                • I feel for you. . - jlynn
  • Of course, all the time - who doesn't?
  • He is old-fashioned, and that isn't necessarily an excuse - HolidayMT
    • When my ex and I were together...sm - PammyB
      • your grandmother=wise woman..saying comes from - the Talmud and goes like this.....sm
      • People who use the Bible as a weapon or excuse to control - um, no way.
      • Your aunt is a wise woman, and she is a strong person - Holiday MT
  • Wow. - tnmt
    • ? - anon

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