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Yep, I had therapy for awhile too

Posted By: not for me on 2007-03-27
In Reply to: Me too - gd1

Therapy didn't take the nightmares away and didn't take away my fears. My anger from it is better but not gone.

I think if I stay a little angry, I will be a little more vigilant and protective of myself. It will not happen to me again.

I can feel sorry for the jerk but can't forgive him for taking my security away from me.

And, before the "holier than thou" people jump on the religious aspect of forgiveness and healing, let me just tell you this.

I have seen many different counselors over the years for this. I even sought counsel from my church back then and I was basically turned into the church sideshow.

These were people I trusted but they let everyone in the congregation know that I was a little sinner and had brought a horrible shame upon myself and my church family.

This was not some kind of fanatical church but I won't say which one.

So in case Georgia Gal is wondering which church, she will continue to wonder. Just know that I will never get over this and I just can't see how she could. Church or no.

I believe in God, I just do not believe in church anymore.

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