Wow - that's awful. I am so sorry you are going through that. sm
Posted By: MeMT on 2008-09-24
In Reply to: What would you do? - sm - dizzi
I am imagining my now 8 year old daughter acting that way one day (I pray not!) but I think I would have to get very tough on her. I would sit her down and say, "look, what happened to my daugher? Do you understand how much I love you? Because I love you so much I cannot and I will not let you ruin your life. It is my job to protect you and to raise you so that when you leave this home and go out into the world, you are as well-prepared as I can make you. Because of that, I will do WHATEVER I have to do to protect you. If that means putting you in rehab, so be it. If that means taking your car keys, fine. Whatever lengths you decide to go to to destroy yourself, I will go to to try to prevent you from it. In the end, I would tell her, it is her choice, and that even if you do all you can do, she can still choose to ruin her life, but when she does, you will know you did all you could to prevent it.
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That's exactly what I said - how awful
Wow, that's awful!
Hindsight is always best. If I had it to do over again...nevermind. I could see from the very first CASA report that she didn't like me and thought the ex was golden. If I said the sky was blue she reported I "alleged" it and it had yet to be substantiated, if he said the sky was brown she reported it as complete fact that she herself had verified. That kind of biased reporting lets you know right then she's your enemy.
That's awful
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OMG - that is awful
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Isn't it awful
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It's about 25,000 here and it's awful
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This would be awful.
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What an Awful Thing
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The big company I used was awful.
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wow. awful sight.
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My punctuation was awful there.
Please excuse.
Wow - no not that extreme!! That's awful! (sm)
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All the time and it is awful. If I take something for it s/m
I am dragging most of the next morning. Wish I had a good answer for us.
Jeez! Awful! ...sm
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What awful things to say
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I was glad to see that Simon finally acknowledged what we all know is going on (voting for the worst) when he said it wasn't funny anymore and they were seriously trying to pick an American Idol. I also found it funny that Ryan felt he needed to step in when Simon was critiquing Sanjaya. Why? He wasn't saying anything he hadn't said before, or anything he hadn't said to other past contestants. I liked the fact that Simon motioned Ryan off the stage, because I felt Ryan was out of line and should just let Sanjaya take his lumps.
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Especially that awful show "Cheaters"!
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No need to compare notes, she is just awful to buy for so
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Muskrat Love...just awful...nm
Anybody else having an awful time financially?
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LOLLLLLLL! They're both awful.
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She sings awful anyway. I never understood
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Poor child. It's so awful when children have to go
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I'm 40 and my production in the early a.m. hours is awful
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Anyone every break a blood vessel in their eye. I just did and it looks awful. nm
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where they have all the contestant question and answers. Check out what Sanjaya said.
Q: If you couldn’t sing, which talent would you most like to have?
A: Singing.
LOL! That says it all, doesn't it. I thought it was really funny :)
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Horror movie ads, especially that "Hostel II" one! Awful!
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The girl in the kitchen telling her dad how awful it all is...
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Try some low-fat vanilla soy milk in your joe, Hayseed. Awful at
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Yeah, Gwen sounded awful - sm
wonder if having 2 kids changed her voice or something or else she was having a really bad night.
The judges picked awful songs all the
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one learns an awful lot in their young years, true?
there are MANY schools of thoughts here - NONE OF THEM BEING RACIST...none of these posts appear racist in my mind....it's all in how one interprets the posts.
One learns much in kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd grades...good and bad things alike.......
let's all agree to the ability and maturity to disagree on things without spatting, eh?
The pill always made me feel awful - does Depo?
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It's awful! I used to live in NY. Avoid it at all cost on Black Friday!
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