Wow - me too, except

Posted By: Me on 2008-12-11
In Reply to: questions - anon

I'm not in an abusive relationship. He's just poor at money management and I'm bored and unhappy. I'm afraid I won't know what I really want until I'm living separately. I want out right now, but I am afraid I'll regret it when things get hard and then harder. The last 2 years have been awful, but do I really think I can do better on my own? I just want to have fun and feel young again. I feel much younger than him because he hasn't taken care of himself. Everybody will think I'm selfish and stupid, right?

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Want to leave my marriage but I'm scared!! Need viewpoints (sm) - MomMT
- Thank you all for your replies (sm) - MomMT
- Additional questions for all of us going through this... - Silly Girl
  - Talk to a lawyer first - sm - In-debt MT
  - Well I do know that our state is 50-50 (sm) - MomMT
  - questions - anon
    - I'd like to add that - sm
    - Wow - me too, except - Me
      - Think it over VERY carefully - Mid Life Crisis?
        Thanks. - Me
- Do you know how many times yesterday - Silly Girl
- You can do it - NewCareer
- Leave now - finally free
- I've been there s/m - MI-MT
- Worry about finances but don't worry about insurance. sm - LMT
- Same boat, just too afraid to post it. - Sonic
- I have been in your shoes (sm) - anon

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