Wishing you a speedy recovery! (NM)
Posted By: Ouch!!! on 2006-12-15
In Reply to: Not the pedal foot!!! arg - Montana MT
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As far as recovery, I
was told I had to take 2 weeks off from work but honest to pete, I did not think the physician had performed the surgery. I had not 1 minute of pain, nothing. I had the vaginal route and could have returned to work without any problems the next day. Knowing my work ethics, my supv said no work for the 2 weeks.
Speedy Gonzalez
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pink. Speedy Gonzales or Peppy Le Pew?
haha
I am sorry to hear about your house. I hope that you can somehow make a financial recovery.
Actually, it was usually co-workers or friends that I would hear boast about their refunds, and none of them were on public assistance (that I knew of anyway).
As an aside, I am a single parent who gets to claim the EIC. I am the sole support for my daughter so every penny counts. I guess I do not consider stressful to keep money in savings. For me, it alleviates stress to have that safety net there for emergency expenditures or unforeseen events. I also take advantage of all the pre-tax contributions I can claim in the form of IRAs, an HSA, and my little one's 529 account. I guess it is just a different way of looking at things.
I think we're all wishing we could be there! lol
Good for you and good luck! Please do update us.
Wishing you strength..sm
I have been in your shoes more times than I wish to count, so I truly understand your feelings at this point. Discovery of a spouses infidelity seems to be akin to that of experiencing the death of a loved one. You go through all the ranges of emotion from excruciating pain, anger, resentment, etc. It is a death, in a sense, as it is more the death of trust..trust in someone you believed loved you and would never do anything to hurt you. trust in the vows you all exchanged during your wedding cerimony. Whether the marriage can survive this depends on many things, with the biggest question being why did he turn to someone else in the first place? He may not have *sought* her out, per se, but nothing stopped him once the temptation was placed before him. That is a sign of whatever is *wrong* between you and he may not even know the answer to that. He would have to delve deeply within himself to find the answer to that and he would have to be totally honest with himself and with you concerning that. And you have to be totally honest with yourself, as well, as to whether it would be worth it to try to get whatever measure of trust back that you once had. If you can't, then it is doomed. Marriage is a lot of work, and hard work. Some people just are not up for the task, as to throw it all away at the first sign of trouble is sometimes easier than working through the issues that brought you all to that place in the first place. My heart goes out to you, particularly at this time of year when everything is supposed to be so happy and peaceful. Follow your heart and the guidance of that *inner voice* inside you. It will never steer you wrong, if you are honest with yourself and what you want out of your life and marriage. Do what is best for YOU and not always the advice of well-meaning friends and family members. Good luck to you and your family.
Wishing I had used chargers!
I too have a really pretty dining room table. At Thanksgiving, I decided not to use a table cloth. I didn't use chargers, sure wishing I would have though. The heat from the plates left white marks on the table, 10 of them! Chargers will probably keep this from happening. I tried mayonaise on the spots, a tip from my mom. It didn't work. I sprayed furniture polish on it and let it sit and that helped some but I can still see it. I guess I have learned a lesson the hard way!
I've been wishing
he would die in a horrible car accident for YEARS.
Wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. sm
 I hope you all have something to be thankful for!!!
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