Why are you constantly forgetting about

Posted By: Jan on 2009-03-06
In Reply to: There was no name listed at all on his policy - Interesting!

your brother's wife?

She was also a legal heir with FIRST PRIORITY.

The state could not locate them? I bet you could have helped them, but you did not want to. These were your nephew and your niece, blood relatives! You refused to help when the mother asked you and to top it off you put their money into YOUR pocket. W o w !

To say that it was probably better that you put all the money into your pocket, is pathetic and mean, maybe they would have used their father's money to get out of their addiction and start a decent life!

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Re: Beneficiaries in a will (what a mess)... - steph13
- As you and your brother are named your grandtather's will as - Jan
  - If there is a will but no executor named, then - Jan
    - Heirs and the State............sm - m
- Update... - steph13
  - Just did this myself... - Boo
  - Person holding POA changes it, but - sm - too late now?
    - Same happened to me.......... - Jan
      - Wow, is that legal? - sm
        No, this was definitely not nice. Not toward - Jan
    - POA......... sm - m
      - Exactly right! Nobody can change what is put down in a will, - Jan
      - Wills can be changed, they are not iron clad - But, listen up
        Wills cannot be CHANGED. They can be - Jan
- Reading this over and I think - Interesting!
  - Why was the insurance to go to your deceased - sm
    - I guess I must have missed something - sm
      - I never saw the policy, never knew he had - Interesting!
        I cannot believe that they could not find them - Jan
        Have you lost all your senses? - Interesting!
        To this I can say only this..... - Jan
        Can anyone tell Jan a sister-in-law is not family as far as blood relative, my goodness! - Interesting!
        So, when your SIL CALLED, what did you tell her? - Jan
        I don't think Jan............. sm - m
        Admit it that YOU put yuor nephew's and your SIL's inheritance share into your POCKET. - Jan
        Marsha, Marsha, Marsha.... stop picking on me. - Jan (not really though)
        Oh, grow UP, Jan! sm - Marsha
        JAN--A SISTER-IN-LAW IS NOT A BLOOD RELATIVE. - nm
        It DOES NOT matter! As your brother's WIFE, - Jan
        Jan. (in case you are the same jan) - anon
        Yes, I am the same Jan, who posted about - Jan
      - Ywes, tht's what I am saying, that's not possible - Jan
    - The poster below just does not get it - Leesa
      - I bet you told the insurance company that - Jan
    - Why not? That's the point, Who was - Jan
    - There was no name listed at all on his policy - Interesting!
      - This is total BS ! Every policy policy must have a beneficiary!..nm - Jan
        SURE,his wife and 2 children were named, I bet... - Jan
        I am hoping you get the help you seem like you need - Interesting!
        I am too young to be wronged about inheritance.. - Jan
        What kind of aunt ? - INTERESTING
        Who is SIL? Which one do you mean? - Jan
        Jan, why are you so confused? - Hmmm
        I was confused because SIL can also - Jan
        My niece died from - Interesting!
        YOU so wrong, your SIL IS a legal heir, - Jan
      - Why are you constantly forgetting about - Jan
    - Adding to above - sm
      - No names, none at all listed. - Hmm
        How come?? Every policy NEEDS a beneficiary!...nm - Jan
  - Important: I disagree with this sentence in your post: - Jan
    - AM ONLY ANSWERING 1 TIME AND THEN OUT OF HERE - INTERESTING!!
      - MADE OUT LIKE A BANDIT, STOLE EVERYONE'S MONEY, I AM RICH, RICH, RICH - INTERESTING!!
        YOU are so confusing and your whole life history,... so many - Jan
        $750,000......... - INTERESTING!!
      - NO, it is NOT clear; Why did your stepbrother's - Jan
    - And who said anything about them paying for their father's expenses? - Interesting!
      - something else regarding debts.... - Jan
        This shows you just how much you do not know - Interesting!
        YOU are not responsible for his debts, HIS ESTATE is.... - Jan
        Why these attacks? I find YOU 'interesting!...sm - Jan
      - I there is a will, it does NOT matter - Jan
  - I am very grateful!... - steph13
    - The STATE can only take the assets, if there is NO will and NO heirs..sm - Jan
    - Same as in case with my father, - Interesting!
      - what do you mean by 'his son' and 'his wife' - Jan
        Ok, you are smarter than me, right? - Interesting!
        That your brother was your stepbrother - Jan
        I had NO, NO, UNDERSTAND stepbrother - Unbelievable
        Then it is even worse! Then you took - Jan
      - I do not understand why the money went exclusively - Jan
        How to split insurance with a deceased person? - Interesting!
        What abpuit your stepbrother's wife? Did she die TOO - Jan
        You should have split the insurance money with hour stepbrother's WIFE AND CHILDREN... - Jan
        splitting the assets... - Jan
        Answers to your questions - Interesting!
        As his wife contacted you, you must have had some - Jan
        And you don�t know which end is up - Unbelievable
        I do not understand how the state could NOT locate her and her children - Jan
        Why did your stepbrother's wife not inherit from your - Jan

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