White Shoulders is a very light floral,

• Curious about perfume/cologne. - ER MT
  • Scensational's China Rain n/m - light, clean, fresh smell, lots of compliments
  • Sung - vicki
  • Happy - very light - nm
  • Chanel No. 5, Vera Wang's Princess. Ralph Lauren Blue sm - ETMT
  • Chanel Allure or Christian Dior's Ja'dore. - sm
  • Thanks for all the responses. - ER-MT
  • I wear Docle and Gabbana Light Blue, Beautiful... - Carlyd
  • Beautiful. Or the BCG Girls fragrances, I think there are 4. The females in this - house like wearing guy's stuff, too. nm
  • More Scents to love! - nana
  • Cashmere Mist - nana
    • Not OP but can you tell me who makes this? - sm
      • Donna Karan. nm - wanderer
  • White Shoulders is a very light floral, - aln
  • Try Clinique's Happy. One of my favorites. - Alice
  • Give a sniff at the perfume counter! :) Laura Ashley's #1 is nice. nm - Hubs has allergies so only soap here. Rats! nm
  • perfume - me
  • I like Navy. I have had nice comments when I wear it. nm - DumDum
  • I use Pure Grace and Amazing Grace - ss
  • I think you would like something my daughter wears - mdlfcrs

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Ok, a little background.  I recently started a second job.  I am working approximatley 12-14 hours a day (typing and other MT stuff).  I have recently lost over 60 pounds.  Over the weekend, I did raise my chair up some and that did seem to help, (I guess some of that 60 pounds was the big pillow I was sitting on!)but I still have some pain.  Does anyone else experience this?  If so, what did you do to help.  I am 28, so I hope it isn't arthritis or anything yet!  I am not a medicine taker and don't want to start taking anti-inflammatories or anything every day yet. 

Thanks!

and I'm sorry your mom is not well.  I will keep both of you in my prayers. 

I hope tomorrow is a better one for all of us. 

Ever see the movie "Clueless?"  There's this GREAT line where the father tells this boy that if he doesn't have his daughter home safe and sound at the end of the date, "I got a .45 and a shovel, I doubt anyone would miss you." 

Freakin' kills me! 

cause it's easier to shovel than that heavy wet snow....Do you shovel or does someone else do it for you?    Cat  

Even though I've been married for almost 10 years. When does your husband lose respect for you? If he does.  When exactly does that happen and can you get it back? I swear, if I didn't have God in my life I so would not be sitting here married.  He supposedly has God in his life, too, but sure doesn't act like it. Neither do I sometimes, but I have so much more respect for him than he does me. I'll talk and he'll roll his eyes and move his hands in a rolling motion for me to "hurry up" with my story. He never listens. So tonight in the middle of me telling him something I just turned around and stopped talking. He asked me why I did that and I told him what he did (and he didn't even realize it) because he got so mad and defensive and started yelling at me (in front of the kids) to "never, ever tell him another thing again." How childish is that? I wish I didn't have to talk to him again at this point.

I'm sure tomorrow I'll be better, but when we dated he never did this. I wouldn't have married him. Can I be perfectly honest with you ladies? In the bedroom I am his slave (haha). I hate it. I honestly think that is where I went wrong.  Now I avoid it like the plague as much as I can (go to bed 2 hours after he does), but I honestly think it's because of all those years of doing whatever he tells me to do.

Do you ever get that back? The respect? I feel like we are so far gone sometimes.  Divorce isn't an option right now with a family. I just want him to respect me.

Tell me how I should act to him, towards him, with him, what do I say? I honestly don't know. He treats me like this because obviously I let him. I just HATE his yelling. My voice is SO much softer than his and he is just OBNOXIOUS. I avoid confrontation for fear of his dam* VOICE!

I don't know if this is crunchy, but it does get sort of a crust on the outside after awhile.  If this isn't it, maybe some more info?

FLUFFY BOILED FROSTING

1 1/2 cups sugar 2/3 cup water 1/8 teaspoon cream of tartar 3 egg whites Pinch salt 1 teaspoon vanilla In a heavy saucepan combine sugar, water and cream of tartar. Slowly bring mixture to a boil, stirring sides of the saucepan with a brush dipped in water to remove any sugar crystals. Cover and boil for about 3 minutes or until a candy thermometer registers 245 degrees. Beat egg whites with pinch of salt until glossy and peaked. Slowly pour in syrup as you continue to beat the whites. Beat until cool and frosting is soft and fluffy. Fold in vanilla

I'm not sure if I'm missing something here or what, please tell me what your thoughts are - believe me I'm ready for anything anyone can tell me.

Situation - dad is out of work.  He's 72 years old.  He's going through the employement agency, applying to at least 3 places a week, if not more.  He can't retire and live off social security and military retirement because they don't pay enough.  He has been living with his girlfriend (which I consider wife) for over 25 years.  They live in a moderate size house, but it's a little strange arrangment.  He has 2 bedrooms and a bathroom upstairs, she has bedroom/bathroom downstairs but everything else they share.  My mom told me years ago that she believes he proposed to her and gave her an engagement ring but she couldn't be sure (mom and dad stayed friends after they divorced - as long as they weren't together for more than an hour :-o)  Anyway...unemployment office set him up with a free email so he could apply to places and give an email address (it was through something called ymail).  Dad said he was going to go through 2 days of computer training per the employment agency, that way he would at least know how to turn on a computer.  He's got a good sense of humor, is in just a bit of a rut but he keeps applying and hoping he'll get something, but he did tell me he has to be realistic and what place is going to hire a 72 year old man.  He's had a long history of injuries, had his ankle pinned years ago and every once in awhile will need to use a cane, but for the most part he gets around very very well.

Now...here's the deal (oh yes, I forgot to say he lives on the other side of the country from me).  Anyway...yesterday my sister calls and said dad was there (at her house) and asked if he could check his email but she didn't know how to get on.  I tried to see if I could help but we could not pull up anything and I was on my way out the door.  So I called back and this is what she told me (which is why I'm wondering if I over react or not react enough or what, or is my sister just a cruel-hearted you know what).  I told her I was sorry I couldn't help more but I had to be somewhere before they closed.  She said it was okay because it was taking forever and he couldn't wait around.  Then she said "you know dad is going to have a hard time finding something because he is so particular".  I asked what she meant and she said he's being too picky.  I again tried to figure out what she meant.  She said there are jobs he could do but he won't.  She said that he told the agency that he needs a job where he can get home at night because he has some animinals he has to take care of (in other words he can't be gone for days like driving truck).  He also said he couldn't do a job where he would have to be running up and down stairs and running from building to building because of his ankle and being 72 years old.  He said most everything esle he would do. Except that he doesn't want a job where he has to drive so far that whatever he makes would just be paid in gas to get there (which there were a couple jobs like that).  He called me and said if he wanted to truck drive he could get a job, but the places want him to relocate across country (and not near us), so he told them no.  Well my sister got upset and was telling me that he could relocate cos he has no ties there (which I was surprised to hear because she is close to him and I would think she wouldn't want him to move).  I told her what does she mean no ties.  I said he's been with his girl (thank goodness I didn't call her a wife) for over 20 years, he has a house (even though his name is not on the ownership papers he takes care of it, repairs, etc), and he has about 7 cats.  I told her he's 75 years old (to which she about bit my head off and said he's 72).  Then she proceeded to tell me he has no ties to his girlfriend.  She said he lives in 2 bedrooms upstairs, and the house is hers and she need to learn to live on her own.  So from that I took it she doesn't think highly of his girlfriend, which I happen to think she's a very nice lady.  I remember a few years ago after my mom died my dad told us what his wishes are (he has papers, a plot and all that stuff so if anything happens its all taken care of), but at one point something happened to him and my sister (who happens to have joined a mormon church) told me that if he died his girlfriend should have no say in what happens (service wise).  I knew what she was getting to because the same thing happened when my mom died.  Mom had cancer and I talked to her often in the hospital.  She asked me if I had strong feelings about what kind of funeral service she had.  I asked mom what kind did she want to have.  She said she was a strong episocopal, but my sister really wanted to have her church do something.  I told her don't worry about me just do what you want to do.  She said she didn't want to hurt my sisters feelings.  Anyway...she didn't have a mormon service, but a guy from my sisters church came and spoke at the funeral parlor about my mom (even though he didn't know her - kind of was uncomfortable listening to him, but at that point I didn't care and my sister was really happy).  However, afterwards one night my sister asked if I was upset about him talking and I said no of course not (which I wasn't).  She said she was glad because she had talked to mom before she died and mom was so curious about being a mormon and said she had wished she had time to become a mormon before she died (which I knew was a lie because I had been talking to my mom all along).  I just said that was weird because whenever mom talked to me she said how strong she was in the protestant faith.  Anyway...sorry for the side step, but I think what my sis was getting at was that when my dad dies my sis wants to run the funeral and have a full blown mormon service (which I know for a fact my dad doesn't want - he's catholic, but just doesn't go to church, but does cite the rosary and knows more about that faith and that is what he believes (he comes from a long line of catholics).  Anyway...sorry for that detraction too, but I was just shocked to hear my sister say she think my dad who is 72 years old should box all his belongings up and move across country and try to start a whole new life in an area he doesn't know. 

So, are things black and white or does my sister just not have any sense.  My aunt (mom's sis) told me one time that my sister doesn't have one shred of compassion for anyone.  My aunts dog died and my aunt cried for days and days and days and my sister never called her to see how she was doing.  Also sis's MIL was very sick and sis treated her horribly.  Sis sees things in black and white and she will say things that I think to myself how can she say that, that is not how we were raised.  Yet she always has compassion for those in her church, just not family.

Okay, sorry to drone on.  Just felt frustrated.  What do you think  Believe me you can say anything you want, you will not hurt my feelings.