When you find out that answer about daughers
Posted By: Christie on 2009-06-27
In Reply to: Also... - CrankyBeach
please let me know. I have had peace and quiet here lately because I have not spoken to mine since around the first of May, call her office and leave her a message prior to her getting to work but I have put some space between us for the time being and no problem. Thought as she aged she would be more likable but guess I was only fooling myself. If not her mother, sure would never be a friend.
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I don't think you will find you answer on this
I believe the term "working at your marriage" comes from the idea of constant communication.
Although you can never be sure, I have never met an MT who had trouble communicating with anyone, and that is not even considering the fact that we never leave the house to work, so we are easy to find to talk!
I am hoping to find out the answer to this soon - sm
Now that we are not using the heat much, and it is getting warmer outside I will be hanging out the clothes. Electric $150 a month November thru April, but jumps up to $250 when using the AC, which I suspect we will keep rather high this year in order to save some money. So my hanging the clothes out will help offset the AC as well. If I can keep it at about $150 a month with the AC on I will be quite happy.
Answer the phone and after you find
out who they are, tell them to take you off the list. If they continue to call, you can report them. Have you not signed up on the NO CALL LIST???
Short answer: Yes, it's VERY rude. Long answer inside.
I wouldn't want my husband to ask, either. In fact, if he did and the people said yes, I still wouldn't go and stay with them, because I'd feel like they were pressured. Believe me, if they wanted you to come and stay with them at any point in the last 10 years, they'd have asked you. I, too, live near a vacation destination, and I hate it when people ask to stay with me. They're the rude ones for asking, but it puts me in an uncomfortable position of trying to politely say no. And it seems that when I do say no, the thwarted "guest" then complains to everyone else in our social circle that we are cheap, mean and unwelcoming.
Tell your husband to crack open the wallet and pay for a hotel.
Find a lawyer, find out where you would stand - sm
in the event of a divorce/separation, regarding custody, house, etc. Custody was my main concern as well since I lied on numerous occasions about the finances. Where I am I was told that would not factor in to the custody at all. I can prove that I am my kids caregiver 90% of the time, I ferry they around everywhere, help with homework, get ready for school, meet at busstop, etc. I could also point out my husband is an alcoholic, self treats his depression with alcohol instead of getting proper medical treatment, has threatend to kill himself (or me) numerous times (though he always says he was joking and did not mean it.....that is his standard answer to everything, or that he never said that). Now I do love him enough to deal with all that because deep down inside my DH is full of it, luckily for me, he has never followed through on anything he says he is going to do. But I thought my confession would be the straw that broke it all and send him over the edge. He still is angry with me, I am sure he will be for a long time, but is keeping it together pretty well, though he has said the stress was going to kill him, now he know how I felt I guess. I am sorry your husband is such a smuck. I feel like a dog sometimes with the sex demands, have to do it the night before he goes out of town....he will be traveling a lot for work for the next 3-4 months, which I am more than glad about, much calmer here then, though it gets tiring for me but as he is not really helping much right now it really won't be much of a change. As for yours going on 5 day weekends.....have you considered having him followed, sounds like there may be some infidelity afoot, and if so that would strengthen your case in the event of a divorce and custody I would think. Sounds a bit fishy going out until 1 a.m. and his frequent trips. My DH fishes too, but he goes 2 miles from here with one of our male neighbors, they shoot the breeze and he gets to unwind some which I encourage. Very rare weekends with a buddy of his, I am talking once every 2 years, which again is fine with me. Start keeping track of all you do, when he is home, where he supposedly goes, with whom, etc. He cannot show he will be a responsible dad if he is never there or never interacts with his own kids. My DH would probably suggest I take our older daughter and he the younger, spliting them up, he has the same perception, the oldest is mine, the youngest is his. Our younger daughter is much easier to deal with, our older daughter drives him nuts and she is only 10. My younger one (8) knows something has been going one though, and worries we will divorce, which she does not want. She is very perceptive for her years. I hope that if you do go the divorce route, which would actually probably be best in your situation, that it all works out for you and you get your fair share of assets, etc. Make sure before you do anything like that you have all your ducks in a row, so talk to divorce lawyer. I talked to one for 45 minutes, cost me $160 but was worth it to set my mind at ease. Good luck.
Wish I had the answer...
up at 2:45 a.m. to get DH off to work, then type from 3:00 am to 5:00 am, then back to sleep till 8:00 am. That's when my 2 yo grandson comes for the day... back to typing at 7:00 p.m. and hopefully done by 10:00 or 11:00 pm. Then off to bed... Try to eat healthy, get some exercise... but at night I do need a shot of caffeine to keep going.. also need to take frequent breaks just to move around to stay away... I used to think that I need more hours in the day.. but then I think I would just end up doing more and more and still not getting sleep... Oh well, only two more years until my DIL is done with nursing school... I hope I can hold out until then.
YOU KNOW THE ANSWER.....you
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I like your answer,
makes sense to me.....
Ok, perhaps an answer
In the Bahamas being as Stern signed the birth certificate, it automatically makes him the father. Now with that said and the Bahamas saying the baby is automatically a citizen there (and being born there is not considered a United States citizen)there is going to be some legal wheeling and dealing going on to ever have them do a DNA. The United States does not govern making anyone have the DNA being as the baby born in another country. Any clearer?
My answer is
no and no- just got more sense than to drink or do drugs and do not fool with anyone who would, not even a child.......
Well...I will answer
I am about 50/50... Thought I would lighten everyone's day but there are some people out there who need Midol, I see
Right Answer!!!
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you already know your answer
just repeat yourself, like she does....I don't have money for that right now, I'm busy with my job. If you give her an inch she's gonna take a mile, you know. She's rude to ask you for exact weight, by the way, good for you not telling Miss Nosy.
And the answer now is
no because I understand about birth defects, nonviability of a fetus, complications of a preemie if they live, etc. so the answer is no, and I got pregnant soon thereafter and had a normal girl some months later.
Well, if she can answer that, then maybe she can tell me
why I have gotten some spots on this brand new $16.00 per tile floor I had installed. I have the tile man who installed coming over tomorrow. I put throughout my grandroom and I asked the other day if I should have sealed it, was told no but I doubt very seriously I would get any kind of satisfaction from where I bought it. Lots of money and now little spots here and there?? Probably not noticable to others but to me and hey, I live here.
Answer
Yes I went to see them and no I did not like, would not go back again. Each contestant performed 1 or 2 times and I thought maybe they would have group as a whole doing several songs, not so. Waste of my time and my money and just think, that was about 2 or 3 years ago and when the contentants were the best, not like this year and you cannot remember most of them on stage.
her answer
I think if you were to ask her and she could respond, she would tell you she had a BIG problem with it!
Thank you for that answer...I like that! (nm)
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I LIKE your answer.... now... maybe this is
thinking outside the box... hey there's T-shirts to be made in this line of thinking... I am starting to feel better already, he he. :)
I will answer you as you seem to want to know
I have been in the same place before as the others, struggling, working as many jobs as I could so I know. My father used to fuss at me because I never saved- how could I raising a family? Finally when I got the first money from the skies??, I then decided to make it count. I did not squander, instead paid bills and put back some. I was fortunate in paying myself completely out of debt and I don't owe anything BUT I have to be careful like the next person, I love to spend and have to practice self control because credit cards can get away from me also if I don't watch it. I did have money in stock market before, lost a lot every single month and when my family member gave me lots, kept asking have you paid your bills and stipulation was I COULD NOT BUY IN STOCK MARKET. I gave my word, put money in CDs, find the best interest I can find and if necessary change them from one bank to another if I find a better rate. I am very, very cheap when it comes to buying for myself but I love to do for others. I never meant the post to sound like others took it, people were talking about paying on principal and luckily last year able to do. I will owe big time this year on my taxes- know that already BUT I have set aside enough to pay that PLUS I have extra when the taxes are paid- then again I pay more on the principal for my home. I am very lucky- just sitting here tonight figuring up how much I owe a month for IC taxes- starting in April I get $500.00+ from a retirement fund- that is taxed- but get this- I will use that money and then put another $250.00 with it and I will have my money for my taxes for the month. Like I said I am very rich in love and happiness and to me that is the most important thing in life- have not always had that either. Grateful for what I do have.
Isn't that their answer to
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Got an answer
Years ago had a hysterectomy and the next day could not find anything in my frig except grape juice, milk and Grape-Nuts. I ate and ate- I spent the whole night on the royal throne- mother asked did I not know- nope- but apparently the cereal is loaded with bran....
Thanks for the answer sm
After asking the question, I decided to research a little and it sounds like cable is liked more by people. I'm just happy we'll have something other than dial up!
thanks!
So he can answer their ads. nm
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You already know the answer....
This is only my opinion but I think you would be much happier on your own. Why stay with a person when there is nothing left and make yourself so unhappy?
One thing I need to say is that he may not have touched you in four years and hopefully if you stay, he will never touch you again but I thought the same thing...I ended up in the hospital with six broken ribs and complications. I would never trust someone who can lay a hand on another again.
Good luck!!
possible answer
The 10 AM phone call was made the next day, the "tomorrow" Judy was talking about.
You won't like my answer ... SM
I would wear both of them out until they could sit down.
The 11-year-old for engaging it (I bet it started there with taunting and teasing) and the 8-year-old for his role, too.
I've raised boys. Been there. Done that. It will work.
You may not like my answer, but I think
stuff starts about this age group. You are right though in that when it is a girl doing "the harm" it is a totally different story. My son is now 14 and went through this with a girl, but I think she really liked him and this is what caused her to pay attention, yet in kids, they kind of think this kind of attention (although it did physically hurt your son) is okay. I wouldn't actually say the girl has special needs.
It hurts us when our kids are hurt, but if I were you, I'd let it blow over because the kids have probably forgotten about it already anyway. I don't know if this helps, but I do hear you and I have been there.
I hope you can learn to forgive (as a Catholic) this little girl for this deed she has done; don't we all deserve a second chance?
ooh, ooh, I know the answer to this one
because we are superior!!!! 
Second answer
Okay, I think I'm done with the computer for the night, so the second, similar answer is:
Madam, in Eden, I'm Adam.
Ya'll have a good night!
A: (answer) Yes!
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Wish I could answer that - sm
I am guessing it was via an online purchase, which I only do from secure sites. I have been shopping online for over 10 years and have never had a problem until recently. I would encourage everyone to check their cc statements very closely because when I talked to the fraud dept at Bank of America she said they can hardly keep up right now with all the new cases of cc theft. 
Here is the answer.
Not political but pasting it from politics board. Read it few days back.
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Subject: Stimulus Payment Info.
"This year, taxpayers will receive an Economic Stimulus Payment. This is a very exciting new program that I will explain using the Q and A format:
Q. What is an Economic Stimulus Payment?
A. It is money that the federal government will send to taxpayers.
Q. Where will the government get this money?
A. From taxpayers.
Q. So the government is giving me back my own money?
A. Only a smidgen.
Q. What is the purpose of this payment?
A. The plan is that you will use the money to purchase a high-definition TV set, thus stimulating the economy.
Q. But isn't that stimulating the economy of China ?
A. Shut up.
Below is some helpful advice on how to best help the US economy by spending your stimulus check wisely:
If you spend that money at Wal-Mart, all the money will go to China.
If you spend it on gasoline it will go to the Arabs.
If you purchase a computer it will go to India.
If you purchase fruit and vegetables it will go to Mexico , Honduras , and Guatemala (unless you buy organic).
If you buy a car it will go to Japan.
If you purchase useless crap it will go to Taiwan.
And none of it will help the American economy.
We need to keep that money here in America . You can keep the money in America by spending it at yard sales, going to a baseball game, or spend it on prostitutes, beer and wine (domestic ONLY), or tattoos, since those are the only businesses still in the US.
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Answer is yep! nm
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there is no answer to your
I think creative/job is an oxymoron, especially the without schooling part.
Here's my two cents:
Pottery studios that are open to the public.
Chuck E. Cheese mouse.
Ringling Brothers Circus.
Mall gift wrapper.
Answer
TechSupport, only the male dogs left the door open. The females, being females, of course closed the door behind themselves, LOL!
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I do not watch the show either but I saw her on Dr. Phil once. She could not have get pregnant so she use in vitro and had twins. She wanted one more child and figured the most she probaby would have is two more but was suprised when she found out she was having six. That is why I think she was given a reality show because she really did not expect the outcome. She said for one year she had about 15 minutes a day to herself.
I really don't know the answer for you.
I can only tell you that I am a recovering alcoholic and have been sober since 1982. I lost my marriage, too. If your husband is doing this for any reason other than for himself or just to get you back, it won't work. He has to want to stay sober more than anything else in the world, and that must be his first priority. He has to want it for himself. My daughter went to treatment for addiction about five years after I did. My son and I went to family week at the center before she came home. They told us that we didn't cause it, and we couldn't cure it. Your husband is the only one who can keep himself sober. I went to Alcoholics Anonymous meetings for ten years. I hope that he finds out while he is there what he needs to do to stay sober. I hope things work out for you.
And my answer to this is
why did not he or say relative or friend speak up PRIOR to the head shaving. Seems like someone with a bit of sense would not that was not right. As soon as the buzzer had started towards my head I would have said something.
Just don't answer the door.
Just don't answer the door.
I have THE BEST answer for this inside: sm
JUST ASK THE INSTRUCTOR WHAT HE MEANS!!!!!!
I think you do know. He gave you the answer. sm
And you have to take that answer at face value. You've gone away with him for a weekend, so it seems like he's willing to take more than he's willing to give. If you don't want him to "shoplift the pootie", then listen to your security system.
He told you what he's thinking, and either you're ok with that, and you continue on. Or, you're not ok with it, and you have to move on.
Well, to answer your question, I liked it...
I tend to eat out of pure boredom when I'm working and Hoodia did seem to help curb my appetite. I'm not overweight, I just wanted to stop eating so much. I do exercise 5 days a week, so I can pretty much eat whatever I want. I have a friend who works in a health food store and she takes Hoodia to help her concentrate when she's studying for a test or something. I've never heard of it used for that, but I did seem to stay focused better when I was on it. I was only on it a few months, but was able to get in a routine about eating and now don't snack as much. I only lost a couple of pounds while on it, but it did help me make better food choices since I wasn't as hungry all the time.
To answer your question
no, keep out, not my business, not even my daughter do I try to tell her anything now that she is grown. Take a back seat to putting in my thoughts.
sweet answer!
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Good answer, good answer!
Did he marry her, the answer is
no. They had a symbolic wedding, means nothing in the eyes of the law. Her mother would be her next of kin. That being said, IF 1 of the 3 now claiming to be the father really turns out to be the father, the courts probably would hold the money in trust. I am not so sure they would entrust her father to get that much money and besides that from what I have read, the court action may not be completely over yet on the outcome of the millions from the old man husband. Such twists and turns, huh?
not the best answer, but, you can always install
and find a 12-step program for your mom (I'm saying this tongue in cheek) :) I understand what you mean about worrying about your mom, but when it comes down to it, it is her life to live the way she choses. I foud this out the hard way just last week with my own mom, so I know how hard it is to sit back and watch you mom fishing for potential problems...but, unless she is a danger to herself or others, all you can do is speak your mind and keep your fingers crossed. At least all that is happening is that she is getting hurt emotionally, and that she is smart enough not to fall into financial ruin through these sites.
I cannot answer that question for you...
because I am not dissecting each one apart and looking for an answer.
I was only stating that to say someone who has spent most of their life here cannot be influenced by the culture from their birth place is simply not true.
It might have not had anything to do with him being Korean and how they feel about Americans, but with the terrorist attacks and anti-American propaganda out there by other countries, you cannot just ignore that as a possibility or put the label racist on it if anyone brings it up. More than likely though, it had to do with him just being a very disturbed person.
Love your answer
I am married but I take myself on my own vacation (sometimes we go together) but he does not love to go like me so I hook it up with a travel group and have a blast. Traveling again this summer. Used to vacation with the kids but now love traveling where I want to go and do what I want to do and only my opinion counts. I never had an empty nester thought in my life, more like whew!!
That was a good answer.
You need a new ID - lol!
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