What you need...
Posted By: Dawn on 2008-05-25
In Reply to: Additionally - melisa
Please don't take this the wrong way, but what you need is someone to talk to. I am not just talking a professional. A friend, a support group, anyone who may be willing to listen and perhaps office comfort and advice. I can't say that I have the same situation, so i don't completely understand, but my husband verbally abuses me. It really does a number on the self-esteem. I have even gone so far as calling the police on him twice when he has been raging. I don't have a lot of friends but the ones I do have are always willing to talk to me and some of them have problems as well. It is a give and take sometimes but I always feel better for it. I also have found that sometimes you do have to let go and move on. I was married to my first husband for 13 years, called it quits with him and did find love again, not sure if it is better or not but it has its good days. Just keep your chin up and know that he is the one with the problem and it does not have anything to do with you. Sometimes people are already broken before we get them and we cannot always fix them. Please just ahng in there though. If you need to talk, you can always call me, I am willing to listen if it will help you. Shoot me an e-mail if you want.
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