What would you think?

I would love some opinions, feelings, have you been through this, etc.

Scenario:  You were in a relationship with this person for 3 years 30 years ago and you were dumped.  You start talking again and find that the attraction is still there.  He comes to stay with you for a month after talking on the phone for 2 months.  Yes, it is still there - the attraction, love, and it seems he has changed for the better.  He is not financially well off.  He wants to come back to his home state.  He tells you he loves you constantly to the point you feel smothered and have to think does he really.  You are hesitant about having him move in because you have not lived with anybody for 16 years, you are financially stable but would not be supporting him (you think), you feel your life may be disrupted - especially because of the above.  Could "I love you" to the extent of being tired of hearing it and hearing "when I come home" be the factors you would put an end to this relationship?  The money really is not an issue and even though you are hesitant, you really want to do this. 

What would you do, how would you feel, and would you think he is lying to you?

Thanks!!

• What would you think? - Want to make the right decision
  • well.... - Tab
  • Sounds like....sm - TechSupport
  • Doesn't sound like he's lying, just sounds like you have different wants. - Confetti
  • If he is smothering you now by just - sn
  • If you are feeling smothered now --sm - DeeAnn
    • Well - sm

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