What do you do when someone has no ...sm

consideration for when you are TRYING to work?  I have a father who is to put it nicely not hitting on all eight.  I have posted of him before on here and all his problems.  Well he will call me honestly I don't know how many times per day.  Several and also come over here to.  He can be just left my house and will call 30 minutes later and all he will have to say is "What are you doing?" or either whining about his issues which I listened to when he was at my house 30 minutes before.  Well he can KNOW I am working and he will call anyway knowing he doesn't need anything.  I will answer it once to make sure no emergency or nothing and then I will say ok well I have to go I am working.  He will just keep talking.  I want to pull my hair out.  So now I have to just not answer it.  Then he will call literally every 15 minutes.  It is nervewracking.  I have a job, I have a family, and I have a life.  I think he needs one too.  Any suggestions I haven't tried yet?  The man has issues.  He has been threatening suicide for almost a year now to gain attention.  I finally quit paying any mind to him because he just wants attention.  He went to my mom's tonight and is knocking on the door to which she does not answer and yelling who are you seeing, who is it?  They are divorced, mind you.  Then he actually said well I will kill you and him too.  Well she isn't seeing anyone honestly cause if she ever gets rid of this whackjob she says she will never have another one.  I am adding this stuff in just to let you know what kind of person we are talking about here.  He will drive you mad.  I have even been blunt and told him mom doesn't want you please don't call me if that is all you have to talk about.  I am tired of hearing it.  They have been divorced about 9 months now.  He still don't get it.  He peaks in her windows at night to see if she has anyone in the house.  He will call her every few minutes so she has to block his number.  He is mentally unstable.  I have tried to get him to go to a doctor and he refuses.  He will not work.  He is always and forever bumming money.  Have I left anything out?  I am sorry.  I have to vent.  Going nuts here.  What do I do about all these phone calls by the way? 

• What do you do when someone has no ...sm - curious girl
  • If your mother does not handle this - sm
    • She has contacted the sherriff....sm - curious girl
      • I know restraining orders are good for more - sm -
  • I agree with everyone so far s/m - MI-MT
    • She says if she calls the cops every time he shows up ...sm - curious girl
      • Keep calling the police and s/m - MI-MT
        • Hers and your life may be - sm - He is a nut job
  • I'd get a restraining order, that way when- sm -
  • Did you talk to your mom about any of this? - feeling for you
  • wow...talk about drama, sm - flcmt
    • I was going to suggest the same things...sm - Confetti

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