Well thanks for joining us sweetie! nm

The messages you are viewing are archived/old.
To view latest messages and participate in discussions, select the boards given in left menu

on Tues. mornings. Worked out perfect since I'm off Tuesdays. Here's the dilemma. Most of the women (90%) were so rude to me. No matter how friendly and nice I was to them (which I am very outgoing) it just did not matter.

I'm thinking of joining it again. How does one put up with bad attitudes in this situation? Don't I have the same right as they do?? I mean, just because I'm young doesn't mean I can't be there. The bowling alley was the one who put me on the stupi*d league in the first place! I should add that my average at the time was 160 (I've been on leagues since I was 8 years old) and I am an above-average bowler. Now my average is even higher. I was constantly winning small pots due to high game (200s or more).

Why am I so afraid of going back? There were at least 75 women in the league. Most of them retired. Why do older women like that have bad attitudes? Is it the environment? Jelaousy? You'd think after all those years they'd be over that. There are no men around, so it can't be jealousy. I'm so upset and annoyed and I haven't even signed up yet! UGH!

I am SO happy you posted your experience with Fermodyl, just like you said you would!!!  WAY_2_GO!!!  Happy it's working for you.  I never lie, anyway.  *ROFL*

Keep in touch!!!  *hug* 

Signed: *el*

Love this guy and he Loves you, that is most important.  As post below suggested, you may just have a low sex drive or possibly hormones.  A good check up by your doctor may hold that answer if you want to seek help.  If you haven't tried it, maybe the products that are available at Walmart, the his and hers?  Or even, don't worry about it, and know that you are loved and he is loved, and the sex will just work however it does, like you said, it is what it is.  Try not to worry too much about it, that may only make it worse.   

BTW, some women, just like men, lie about their sexual experiences with their partners.  Maybe lie is too strong a word, maybe enhance is a better word.  I am not saying all do.  I know this from personal experience.  I had a girlfriend who swore to another girlfriend that her and her husband were just like young lovers, carrying on several times a week.  However, she told me they hardly ever had sex, maybe once a month or even every couple of months.  So all this GREAT sex talk you hear about may just be just that, talk. 

My husband and I were together for 20 years before he passed away, and we had hot and cold spells.  Sometimes it was really great, sometimes it was just downright pitiful.  Through it all though, whether we went to sleep frustrated or very satisfied, we never forgot we love each other.  I say love because to this day I am still very much in love with him.  Even though his physical body is not here, his spirit and love are still very much a part of me, and I would not trade that for all the "great sex" in the world. 

Again, Merry Christmas to you all, hope you all get what you deserve and may you all prosper in the New Year!

never, ever enter my mind.  It is up to the breeders in the first place to breed aggression out of this breed.  So many are bred for fighting and bred to look mean and threatening at the owner's side.  If more responsible breeders and owners did their part, this is actually a wonderful breed.  HAPPY HALLOWEEN!