Try to put aside your animosity towards your SIL

Posted By: lt on 2008-07-03
In Reply to: Is this inconsiderate or what? - sm

and be happy for your daughter and yourselves. Some people are ignorant and thoughtless, just don't know better. It sounds as though you wish you had a different SIL but your daughter chose him and it's her life now. I would try to put differences aside tonight and make it a special and happy celebration.

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Is this inconsiderate or what? - sm
- Does not make sense to me - MTinNC
- maybe you daughter told her husband not to tell anyone so they could do it together -- then - anon
  - Yep, I've thought of all that but knowing her - none of it makes sense.......nm
    - ok, and only you know. talk with her privately? (hope all works out well) - anon
- Try to put aside your animosity towards your SIL - lt
  - See message..... - just concerned
- I think I would wait until the dinner - sm
  - Yea, but do I say hey by the way, your husband - told us you're expecting?
    - keep us posted... - Dawn

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