To MSMT

Posted By: GF on 2008-01-07
In Reply to: what's wrong with living - MSMT

Thank you.....I do not have a problem with him living with his sister....the problem I'm is that this is something that 'KINDA PLAN", without discussing it with me...My daughter is very responsible....she has a BS degree and Master's....it just hurts that (not so much him, she didn't feel the need to discuss this with me....

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Wrong - GF
- yikes - that's all. - nm
- My kids have their own places - one is married, one is not...sm - Becky
- Keys - Son - Living with Daughter - I know you are sorry you posted.
  - wrong - GF
- sorry for the way it went down - sm
  - Well, I think this is the problem that most people - sm
    - sorry for the way it went down - different message
      - To different message - GF
    - Thank you - GF
- To GF: Do you realize that the all caps is yelling? - It really changes the meaning of your post.
  - Again - GF
    - On second thought, maybe I see why your - son wants out.
      - OK - GF
- Honestly, it would hurt my feelings... - sm
  - Same here - SM - ERMT
    - To ERMT - GF
- The risks of posting - AnnieM!AnnieM!
  - Oh, I see a halo over the head - Let me see
    - CAN YOU TALK WITHOUT SHOUTING??? - LET ME SEE
    - halo - GF
      - Halo not for son, for AnnieM - See
        No - GF
        Blow them off, change your *name*, and carry on! - anon.
  - To AnnieM.... - GF
- keys - jlynn
  - To Jlynn - GF
    - I understand - jlynn
      - To jylnn - GF
- I've always had a key to my parents' house. - I think you don't trust your son. NM
  - Trust - GF
    - How sad not to trust anyone, even family nm! - ???
    - Perhaps what you wanted was to feel that someone was on your side and to tell you - sm
      - Maybe - GF
- There's obviously more going on here than.....sm - Proud Parent
- U R taking easy/lazy way out. Be the parent even if - it means confrontation. That is part of parenting.
- why is he moving out? - curious
- Step up and be the parent! If he decides he wants - money & easy way is rob store, R U ok with that?
  - I just don't see why any parent would just allow a child decide to move out - Confused
    - To confused - GF
- Problem is you are more than likely still - mary
  - wrong - GF
    - didn't mean you kicked him out, I was just saying - mary
      - To Mary - GF
        I think you need to (sm) - legally
        Legally - GF
- r u sure the key is the only thing - shopaholic
  - wrong - GF
- keys - MT
  - wrong - GF
- Nothing wrong with it. You can - sm
  - Thank you - GF
  - wrong - GF
- Bigger issue - a 16 year old living withi a 29 year old and liability - Patti
  - what's wrong with living - MSMT
    - To MSMT - GF
    - don't assume a 29-year-old is - shopaholic
  - I'm in complete agreement. If major problem, everyone - needs to discuss this. You are liable.
  - Upset - GF
- Tough love can be a good thing - I agree w/you - Hindsight
- You know, the same thing happened to me - Know the feeling
  - Keys - GF
    - So it's really not about the keys at all? - comtemplating this
      - Good point. It is all about the key... - Ditto
        Thank you - GF
        Oh. - Ditto
      - Keys - GF
    - keys - GF
      - I know you are upset about this and it is your decision - Keys

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MSMT
Oh, so sorry! What a rotten time for you. Hope you're at least able to be in your home. I guess I'll stop complaining about snow--a hurricane would be much worse! Did you go to work for MQ? I've been with them 20 years. Used to LOVE my job, but that was before we got "conglomerated" and they keep shoving more and more rules and regulations down our throats and making it harder to make a living. MQ is a perfect example of bigger is not always better. I hate to admit it but I miss "the old days."

To MSMT and Marisa...
No, I do not think that your heart is made of metal; you are straight forward, this is how your life experiences made you. You are realistic and right to the point.

Can you imagine what will be the consequences if Marisa gets pregnant (it might happen, after all they are married and maybe he has a 'normal' moment); it is not recommended to bring a child into this environment.

Marisa, you need to find a partner who truly loves you and makes you feel loved. He has to fill the big void in your heart; everything is alright with you, you are a sensitive, giving, loving person.
I guess that 'he' is the first love in your life.

And...please, do not try to find solace in taking some sort of anti-depressants, they are no solution.