They think I will just accept the money and roll over, not!
Posted By: Laura on 2007-04-26
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I have some property for sale out of state, overlooking the lake, 6+ acreas. I said I wanted at least 145,000.00 for it and the people who want say they will GIVE me 110,000 and close in 30 days. Get this, I do not care if they want to close tomorrow.... Just irritates me that they think I HAVE to close like I will not be able to eat tomorrow unless I sell to them for what they want. Unbelievable. I can keep it for all that....
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You accept this-- don't believe this
Sister in law or not I would be reporting this. This chow could easily do this to a small child or a person. Give me a break -- you love your kitties -- yea sure. I am so upset right now can hardly type. Don't want to make waves with the family -- did those kitties chose to be mauled to death, bodies ripped apart, necks broken -- NO, NO , No. If you don't do something about this you are as responsible as her and you do not deserve to have animals either. If this happens to a child, you will also be as responsible. Put you out there and let the chow have at your foot or arm and see how you like it. Sorry am an animal advocate. Again, do something about it or get rid of all your animals.
please accept
Apparently I misread your post. The way it is worded, it would appear you worked nights except when your kids were gone for the summer.
sorry, you got me on a roll (sm)
do you normally have sex with people who treat you like dirt?
I think they would probably accept because
if they think Michael's, probably would not question and therefore probably DNA would not come up. I think the results with the DNA would show not his but maybe since they have lived with him for so long and probably been around family functions, they probably would welcome. Even at my age and I am younger than his mom, I would not like to start all over with kids those ages.
did you accept it and are you friends?
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So, accept second best in life
and do not complain about your lack of love, the abuse you accept for staying around for a 6 year old and live life as you have it. I am the product of a divorce and to tell you the truth, never ever bothered me. Did not miss having my father around 24/7, saw him often while growing up but lived with my mother and brother and had a wonderful time growing up. I find it amusing to hear someone say the happiness of their child is worth sacrificing their own happiness- remember this when she grows up and decides to leave and then you are left with? Any therapist will tell you in no certain terms you should be happy first, if you are not then your child is not but then, like I said, live your life like you want. I for 1 love my life and hubs, wonderful times, spoiled rotten and could not ask for more in life ever. I am a very blessed person.
Unless you are willing to testify, they won't accept it
Unless you are willing to testify, they won't accept it. They might to a threat "anonymous" but they will need you if they do a deposition or anything that far along. But if she has done any type of insurance billing on her other accidents, before an insurance company or their attorney makes an offer or decides to "collect" they will do a check on all insurance bills for this past person for the past 10 years to see what doctor she has seen, etc. She has to be forthcoming on any doctor seen in the past ten years and they will check that out. So unless they have paid cash and not billed their private insurance company for medical visits, she will be found out. I have a frient who works for me sometime and she works for an attorney and that is what they do first, is to run a financial medical history on that person to see where they have been treated, etc. They check all insurance data bases and if there is a bill that was paid on that person, they find it out. But again, unless you are willing to back up your charges, they cannot use it as when it goes to depositions or anything, they cannot use "hearsay evidence" and you will be needed to testify. Good luck in what you chose. Patti
I accept ALL opinions...sm
I just don't want you to think I am not there for him. I don't want to give that impression. I love him dearly. I just can't take the stress you know. Today he was MUCH better. He seemed pretty upbeat. Nothing against you for having a different opinion than others. I try to do all I can for him, but if he starts acting unreasonable, I just want to throw my hands up. I will be there for him, but I don't want to hear cussing and raving and negativity about my mom either. It is just a hard situation.
I absolutely would accept any and all prayers.
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Crescent roll lasagne
Four packs of crescent rolls in tubes.
2 pounds of ground meat
1 6 ounce can tomato paste
One onion chopped
One clove of garlic minced
Salt 1 t, oregano 1 t, basil 1 t and parsley 2T
2 cups small curd cottage cheese with 2 eggs mixed in and 1/2 cup parmesan grated, stirred all together.
2 cups grated mozzarella
Sesame seeds and 1 T milk.
Cook meat in large pan with onion and garlic. Add spices and paste (it will be thick, don't use sauce.
Open up two cans of crescent rolls on greased cookie sheet and press together all edges and seams. Top with all meat sauce. Top that with the cottage cheese/parmesan/egg mixture. Top that with mozzarella. Open up two more cans of rolls and make a top crest, sealing seams and edges. Brush top with milk and sprinkle on sesame seeds. Bake at 375 for 25-35 minutes until brown. Get a fork.
Maybe that's his story. GF likes to roll around in
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So sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. nm
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Ask the prospective employer if he will accept
a faxed copy until your mom can mail you yours. Most employers take up to 2 weeks to process paperwork and actually start an employee.
I used to do orientations where I worked about 10 years ago. There are other acceptable forms of ID, but you may not have those either. Can't hurt to ask about the faxed copy!
How much money rasied for Katrina, how much money for the diasters due to the tidal waves and what?
Every single one of them have had some smoke around it with the money not getting to where it was supposed to go. I did not contribute, I hardly watched, was not caught up again as I have seen things like this before. They should give a all you can give benefit for Darfur where people are being massacared each and every day. Genocide going on there each and every day. I have not seen any benefits to help them out yet.
I always had a roll of quarters and a few 20s for those breaking 50s on ya first thing in
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Today is my B-day! Going out to dinner with family. Still trying to accept I am 40. nm
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Sign me up, too! (Does the Heathen Board accept
If so, count me in.
I use up a roll of paper towels every 2 days. And
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You can change overnight. Dont accept them
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I'm not the one that got the pink roll of toliet paper. . sm
I'm not sure if your question was directed at me or not. I am the one who had an office manager that had a problem with me going to the restroom too many times. She would purposely wait for me to get into the restroom and page me before I could even sit down on the toliet, not really needing me for anything. She just wanted to make others laugh in my work area because they knew where I was. She also counted how many times I went to the bathroom and made sure everyone else knew that I had diarrhea. This all went on behind my back until my friend told me what was going on. Maybe not exactly a hostile work environment but too uncomfortable for me to continue working there. She was in charge of the office, so there really was no one over her to report her to.
Night person all the way...Around midnight I'm ready to roll!!! nm
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little bit country, little bit rock and roll Donnie or Marie
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that is too cute!!!! but as long as people will fix VR mistakes, it will continue on the roll it is
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and while I'm on a roll I might add that he found time to build a barn but not fix the obvious (s
problems with the house. Putting your wants before the NEEDS of your family is called being selfish. Maybe you are doing the same thing so you can relate to him so well?
Roast up onions & peppers for fajitas. Make roll-ups out of them with soft
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Boy scout son used to make pepperoni and marshmallow fluff roll-ups for the trail.
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But her money is her money to spend as she pleases -
I don't understand how you can think it is wrong for her to spend whatever she wants to on whatever she buys. It is their personal money they spend. It is not like they are saying give me those shoes and add it to the taxpayer's bill.
And in all actuality, they are saying spend, spend, spend to get the economy going.
I am sorry, I am jealous that some people still have plenty of money to spend and I don't, but I don't expect those people to quit spending just because I had to.
when I roll in the driveway I see my dog sitting there staring out, waiting, waiting, and (sm)
When he sees me he yawns and stretches, then puts on this act of being all bored and sits on his tail so I cannot see it wagging... like he was not eagerly waiting for me the whole time and seeing me is no big deal. Every single time. If I have someone with me I'll say, "watch what Walter does..." and he does this every time. Oh, by the way, don't feel bad for this guy for having to wait for me once in while, he has the life of a king.
You are right on the money here...
What great advice!!! I too did a lot of what you have listed in your post. It worked!!! When rules/expectations are in black and white, it's pretty hard to argue about it...
My 2 teens do their own laundry, clean the kitchen after supper, clean their bathroom, and now that they both work, buy the majority of their "things."
The key, I believe, is responsibility. Kids thrive with responsibility. They may moan and groan about it, but in reality, they thrive with rules and responsibility. Good luck!!!
She is right on the money about that - sm
As I said in my post above. The discipline at our former (private) school was a joke. Luckily the majority of the kids at this school are good kids, but there are a few bad apples that would never be allowed to get away with what is tolerated at this school. The nutcase (or strangler) in my daughter's former class at the private school would have been expelled by now from a public school. Amazing what they will put up with for $6K a year and an alumni mother. Oh, and of course they have no type of a counselor or psychiatrist at the private school, no nurse even. They had a real cow when Jenny was in chemo and dealing with that. But that is another story.
Money.
Money or a gift certificate to whatever craft store they shop at when they get supplies for the kids. You can also donate money to the teachers "account" at school and it's tax deductible.
Where to put my money
I am selling my house and moving overseas. I will have between 250,000 and 275,000 after agent fees and loan pay off. I want to take about 50,000 and put in a money market account attached to my checking and savings accounts for easy access for things as I need them and for unforeseen expenses.
I don't know how best to use the other approximately $200,000. I will not have a job. My only income right now will be about $1150 a month from my rental property. I would like to invest my other $200,000 and live on the interest combined with my rental income. What is the best return I am looking at?
Of course I know I need to talk to my accountant and maybe hire a financial adviser but I'd like to hear some thoughts and get some direction so I can research it a bit myself.
5% for a money market is okay but is there a better way to structure this? In a couple of years I may want to use this $200,000 to purchase a home or business so it can't be away for good but 3-5 years is okay.
I keep getting told about going offshore because I won't have to pay taxes on the interest and with internet banking it is easy to transfer funds and make payments.
Of course you can tell I am a novice but I would like to start researching my best options. Any advice?
Money - Should I be mad or not?
Suppose you had a friend who was very nice all the time, to everyone, can't stand to hear anyone say an unkind word about anyone. Suppose this friend had come crying to you several times over a period of a couple of months with financial difficulties, and rather than loan them the money (which would prolong the difficulty in my opinion), you just gave it to them to help them get caught up. It was a necessity and children involved, etc.. So you helped them....anyway...
What if after that, it became a regular monthly, and sometimes semi-monthly event, where there was some major issue of why this person needs money, you figured they must really be having a hard time, felt sorry for the children, and helped a couple more times.
It is my feeling that when you give someone something, it is theirs, so you shouldn't even ask what they did with it. But suppose now you find out that they have purchased something fairly expensive ($400) that is a completely unnecessary luxury item (game), that they had to have purchased during the timeframe you were helping them, and mentioned some other things they have been doing recently - things that you yourself can't even afford to do!! Would you feel you had a right to be upset or would you just say to yourself that they have a right to have a life and once they had money, to spend it how they want? This happened to me recently, and while I have decided not to give them any more money, I am not sure if I should be angry or not?
Boy, that's a lot of money. I think about that old man in WV? who won
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Well, let me see, about money
I have been given money beyond my wildest dreams, from money I got after being outsourced 6 years from a previous employer, over 100,000 (where did it come from?, got retirement when I left there to money given to me by family member and then after this person's death, sold property left to me by them, sold a property I had before this one- the main thing though and I have said this time and time again- I try my best to help others out, choose either animals or people, whatever touches my heart. This Christmas picked some people out from Craigs List and did things for them. I do not do to get because my heart is just like that but things are always coming to me. My mother told me as a child I was like this, giving and I really believe it just comes back- Karma.
Money...
First of all, I can't understand why you would give him money...secondly, he probably is getting it from another woman. Guess you should just deal with it, it's really not any of your business where the money's coming from...are you engaged or otherwise committed to one another?
Boy, do I need the money
I might not receive it as I made just under $3000.00. The rest of my income was around $11000.00 from SSD. I had two major surgeries last year, and being an IC, have no benefits.
Now, if people in my income level don't need the refund more than the upper limit that was set, I don't know who does! Why in the world they would need it is ridiculous. I can definitely use it for bills, or better yet....FOOD!!
The money came from
my father- I was his only next of kin- no siblings living on my side or father's side, his wife not living. My son and his family had already received close to $100,000 from my father earlier.
you had money for that
the possibility of being on welfare? seems to me welfare wouldn't even have been a possibility if you had money for her college tuition plus. probably could have dropped a job or two. ?
See when it comes to having money around
I usually don’t have, don’t keep as much as $5.00 in the house but when I take her home and pay her, usually stop at the bank to use ATM so no money could be taken from the house. I think if you needed items such as the ones I listed (hubs said also has been missing laundry powders and things like cleaning solutions- he notices these things much more than I do (1 time had told me he had missing herbs he had bought- did not have to worry about me using as I do not cook). I hate to think about losing the help but then again cannot stand the fact of her stealing- by the way, the panties so new might have still had tags on them??
Where is all the money going
money
Has anybody ever heard of a Transcriptionist winning the lotto? thought not...lol, and if you did, I bet she didn't keep on working!
He kept his $10 and only used her money for gas.
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We can get you MONEY
The injury lawyers always say that phrase and I hate it!
It's my money and I want it NOW!
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Of course they are...where's the money in
finding a cure for ANY ailment or disease? Wouldn't you think with all of the fantastic doctors and scientists this country has, the numerous telethons, fund raisers, charitable contributions, endowments, etc, that one cure for one disease would be found? Healthcare is the one industry that will probably never face a downturn, let alone financial crisis. Baby boomers = ailments and disease, ailments and disease = money; any wonder drug dries all that money up. I sometimes type people who are on 10, 20, 30 medications...what a racket.
money
I can agree completely. Robbing Peter to pay Paul. Just stinks all around.
I would bet a lot of money
you did not read a single link that I posted. Not a single one.
Now your posts have degenerated even below jeering; you're going for personal attacks on my family. About whom you know absolutely nothing. As if that will somehow bolster your case.
It's pathetic, really.
Got money?
Golf courses, so I have heard.
Right-e-o -- all they want is more money.
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money woes
Here is the real question: Does your husband work just as hard as you, but doesn't make as much, or is he a freeloader?
If he works as hard as you, I think it's a terrible idea to put your money into another account. You need to be a team and if you can't be a team on this matter, you won't stay together. If you're still in love with each other, you can make this work. You should be doing the bills together, so he can see how much is left and why you can't afford the things he is buying. Men are selfish creatures and they can be dumb, too. Don't assume he understands exactly how you feel. Tell him you are feeling taken advantage of.
If he is a freeloader, well, I don't know what to say except that most likely he will always be one. Do you want to live this way forever?
Have you heard of Dave Ramsey? He is very wise regarding money and has a lot to teach couples. daveramsey.com
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