The Godfather I and II. A study of misplaced honor.

• All time favorite movie? - mt
  • favorite movie ever - Les R.
  • Kingdom of Heaven - Kaydie
  • I gotta go with the American Pie movies - mtroadie
  • Gone with the Wind and Titanic. (nm) - x
  • Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead is a great film - exasperated
  • Sweeney Todd and also Out of Africa! NM - For many reasons
  • too many - jlynn
  • The Godfather I and II. A study of misplaced honor. - bada bing
  • To Kill a Mockingbird, movie and book - nm
  • that's a hard question -- - meme
  • Apollo 13. Hanks is always phenomenal - giddy pc guru
  • Just like a potato chip, can't pick just one! - me
  • Absolutely Dirty Dancing - PAMT~MDM
    • That one is definitely in my top 5 - trose
  • The Great Race. Anyone else even heard of it? - moo

The messages you are viewing are archived/old.
To view latest messages and participate in discussions, select the boards given in left menu

perfect example of the first time I experienced that inexplicable attraction.  I was in college and worked in the library.  There was a guy there that worked in the same office at the library, but he always worked in a different room.  I never gave him a second thought as far as thinking he was particularly attractive, plus we were both married.  We would nod hello every day, but that's it.  We never even talked.  One day, however, I had an assignment that had me working in that same room as him.  Whoa.  Out of nowhere I felt this attraction, kind of tingly in my stomach and arms, almost a little swimmy in the head.  It was so intense.  We weren't even rubbing elbows working together, but I guess it was close enough.  I really think there is something to the pheromones thing, or "chemistry." 

The second time it happened, I was sitting on the couch at my house, my husband was sitting across the room from me, and his friend had come to visit.  This is the guy that was best man at our wedding.  Now I always thought he was good-looking, but I had never felt the attraction I felt that day, when he sat about foot away from me, on the floor in front of the couch.  My husband was sitting right there, and you know, it was REALLY weird feeling an intense physical attraction to another man with my husband sitting across the room.

Neither time I acted on what I was feeling and I won't now either.   But the more I think about it, it must be pheromones.  I must say though, I feel bad for people who have that kind of chemistry with somebody else they have to spend time with regularly if they are already married.  That would be a very hard thing to handle.