That is offensive! ....sm
Posted By: blondie_1147 on 2008-10-14
In Reply to: ashley madison dot com - catz
A dating website for married people? Who come up with this? This is wrong, very wrong.
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It is offensive...
When you call the MTs here "lemmings" and "part of the masses," and on and on. Nobody appreciates being talked to in that manner.
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I have to agree with getting offensive
I changed my phone number, email addresses, changed my locks, bought a new computer and furniture, moved 7 times to 4 different states, wasted tons of money on private dectectives and attorneys, kept 2 cell phones (1 he knew about, 1 he didn't), used phones at apartment complex business centers on occasion for complete privacy... Finally filed bankruptcy because of it. Know what worked? I told him to leave me alone and began documenting every contact he made. I went to the police station once a week with list in hand. You don't have to ask for a warrant when you file a complaint...you have up to 1 year from the date of the complaint. If there are enough complaints, the police can refer it to the district attorney's office for prosecution. I had to coordinate my complaints between multiple states. Not even the PI discovered the GPS unit hidden on my car, or the microphones hidden in my couch - I did. Once there are enough complaints, you can request a warrant for arrest. He now knows not to enter the state where I currently live and get noticed by the police because of outstanding warrants. I never did file for an order of protection. I didn't have to go that far. The final straw for him, though, was to become someone he did not WANT. If he happened to get me on the phone, I pretended to be drunk and talked about getting drunk all the time. That was disguisting to him...only guys were "allowed" to drink that much. Between the warrants and his idea that I was no longer desirable, he left me alone.
The drama ended 2-1/2 years ago and I am still overly cautious about what information I give out to people I don't know well, watch my rear-view mirror when I drive, etc., but I feel safer than I have in a long time.
Husband did a bizarre thing - may be offensive so
Everyone was getting ready for school and work this morning, hustle and bustle about the house....I open the door to our room and my husband is right there, door unlocked, using my underwear as a catcher's mitt! He had gotten my clean underwear out of the drawer. We have been having some marital problems and have talked of divorce. I am kind of freaked out. Does this mean he misses me? Does it mean he likes getting away with something right under my nose? Why would he do it at that time of the morning with everyone walking around and the door unlocked? Am I just being naive?
My vent - tremendously offensive - ashleymadison.com
As a happily married woman who has watched couples around her disintigrate because of one or another spouse's infidelity, this is just disgusting. This company was going to advertise during the SuperBowl but the NFL stepped in and said no. Kudos for them.
I hate to break it to folks, but cheating on your spouse is NOT okay. It is adultery, and in a lot of places it is still a crime. It may not be enforced, but that law is there on the books in most states in this very country. It is the one sin the Bible says cannot be forgiven completely. There is a reason for that.
Before you all hit me with 'what about abuse', let me say that this is an area where I have gone 'round and 'round with pastors - if a man (or woman, for that matter) abuses their spouse, then that is most definitely a reason for divorce. However, all these folks just 'tired' of one mate and looking for another? You should have chosen better to begin with. Everyone says 'is this the person I want to wake up next to for the rest of my life', but the real question needs to be 'is this the person i am willing to change diapers for when and if they cannot do it for themselves'. If you can look at the person next to you and say that you will stick with them no matter what, not counting abuse and adultery, but if this person gets a TBI in a car accident the day after your wedding, and you are not willing or able to take care of them for the rest of their lives, DO NOT MARRY THEM, because if you don't care for them that much, you will not stay married to them.
There, I am off my soap box. I am sure I will get pounded for this, but let her rip. I'm a big girl and I can handle it...or just not read those posts.
HC
I find it very offensive that is how you taught your daughter to vote
if my other post is deleted, just thought id add some more.
Not only is it ridiculous that you told your daughter to vote that way, it is ignorant and racist and REALLY SAD
but you just admitted what this election came down to RACE
NOT POLICIES, NOT WHO IS THE BEST FOR THE JOB.
RACE. Exactly what President Elect didn't want it to be about.
how sad are you telling your mixed baby to vote more black than white, when Obama himself is black and white.
sickening and you should be ashamed, how can you live with yourself knowing that you didn't back your vote on intelligence but skin color instead? you just took us back 40 years and admitted it.
there are PLENTY of black republicans, Condeelza Rice, JC Watts, Michael Steele ETC ETC
and this guy my favorite
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wV1mRvxAyHM
AND
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxhYampIl7A&feature=related
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